Weak Approach Still Scoring

[TheManMasenko]

Hey,

I have poor approaches with women (average number of times), but I still score.

Recently, I didn’t say a word to this female for 2 months, we hanged out once. Then, I messaged her. Now we have a planned date.

This is to say, I wanted to talk to her two months ago and felt my opportunity sailed away.
I wouldn’t say I’m an alpha (6ft, 6pack, good salary, bs) type of guy. I’d say I’m just unique.


Express, your thoughts…

Tips/Insight on getting over the initial anxiety?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Your uniqueness is a positive attribute. Focus on looking for IOI's. Since you're unique you may have a higher percentage of girls who don't like you, but the flip side is that the ones who do like you will more likely to be of high interest. Perhaps trying accenting your uniqueness in a positive way if you can.

(note: the above is assuming you don't live in Southern California)