We will see

[Bingo-Player]

so im chatting to this chick on FB (HB 7.5)

interest seems to be high as she's replying a lot quicker than i am which is always a good sign

so i decide to go for a meet up

me: so how about you send me your number and then we can arrange for me to introduce myself properly this weekend ? x

her: haha yea sure its xxxxxxxx , what do you mean introduce yourself properly ? xx

( think she's a little slow )

me: ummmmm like a date !?! x

her: haha we shall see xx

my first thoughts are s*it test !?!

so i havent replied , il hit her up friday because I've got her number now

just not not heard that line before

i like how she's not committing to a date but not dismissing it either

if she wasn't interested then in my experiences she would have moved the convo on or agreed to the date and just flaked

thoughts brothers

 

[hudpes]

I wouldn't wish to analyze what her stupid response meant and it doesn't matter. Call her thursday, don't ask questions, be brief, tell her you'd like to go out with her fri, if she says yes, tell her where and when, ok, see ya, bye, hang up.

Let it go down on your terms, not hers. If she says "oh I can't do fri because I'm attending my my neighbor's goldfish's funeral", without suggesting an alternative date (saturday) tell her you'll call her, bye, hang up. Maybe even if she asks you, "how about saturday", you should tell her you can't and that you'll call her. If she was ever even slightly interested in you, this should increase her IL.

And no more chatting on FB. You can turn it off for her for a couple of days.

 

[Krueg]

Only way to find out is if she says YES to your date. I would make plans ASAP, most people got plans for the weekend... Sooner you ask the sooner you know.

 

[SAYNO]

Yes. I've heard the "we shall see" line before and whenever I heard that line it was the kiss of death. In woman-speak it means: "maybe if nothing better comes around". It also presupposes a qualification period, where the frame is totally spun in her direction meaning if x, y, z are fulfilled and its tenative at best. Spin more plates.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Lol so i went NC after i got the “well we shall see” message

today this chick just messages me saying

“Hey how’s your week going ”

Just incase anyone gets the “well we shall see” answer when you offer a date

hold out

Its a confirmed s*it test