“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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We should really have a talk about this scam that "Men peak in their 40s", it's not helping the young fellas at all

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but yeah, I do agree that you can not play the f8ckboy card from a certain age forward
why not? this kind of thinking urks me, when people gatekeep about what you are and aren't allowed to at your respective age demographic - it all sounds like self limiting beliefs to me. I have a friend in his late 30s who thinks this way despite having a 6pack and being able to pass for a 27 year old, he acts like he's a 50 and constantly insists that we shouldn't do x thing or go y place b/c we're too old. it's tiring.

if anything, societies disapproval of certain age-related behaviors just makes me want to do those behaviors even more, out of spite.

btw I think most men should womanize by default until they're at least 40, 45, then just start to slow it down a bit. I don't see any reason why we should stop.


I've always preferred women with fingernails cut short. I never understood what the point of the long nails was. Supposedly, it's to make their fingers look longer. Why? Do they want to look like ET?
This is off topic but I am convinced that almost all of the things women do for their appearance is for OTHER women. And the origins of most of it is in branding/marketing by the beauty industry. the same thing goes for makeup, fashion choices, etc they all do it because other women do it and ultimately because they are told to do it by the industry.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I've always preferred women with fingernails cut short. I never understood what the point of the long nails was. Supposedly, it's to make their fingers look longer. Why? Do they want to look like ET?
Thats the female versione of roid yourself untill you get too vascular and swollen to flex with other men but you become less and less attractive to women.

They think that they are mogging other women with those ugly nails, the plastic lips or the face fat removed.
That psyop where they convinced themselves that signals of high status or wealth are a flex for women.

They will spend impressive amount of money, get under surgery or wear uncomfortable fashion clothes but they will for no reason follow a training regime and diet.

Awfully the older they get, they more are hypnotized from such things which is one of the many issues for older guys discussed in this thread.
 

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why not? this kind of thinking urks me, when people gatekeep about what you are and aren't allowed to at your respective age demographic - it all sounds like self limiting beliefs to me. I have a friend in his late 30s who thinks this way despite having a 6pack and being able to pass for a 27 year old, he acts like he's a 50 and constantly insists that we shouldn't do x thing or go y place b/c we're too old. it's tiring.

if anything societies disapproval of certain age-related behaviors just makes me want to do it even more.

btw I think most men should womanize by default until they're at least 40, 45, then just start to slow it down a bit. I don't see any reason why we should stop.
Firstly, the more you age the less energy you will have, so it means that you have to be quite strategic towards where you put the energy. I do not think that chasing p8ssy all the time yields the best ROI

secondly, if you solo rely on f8ckboy aura the competition will be very fierce with younger f8ckboys that will naturally be more relatable to the younger crowd than you are ( especially from mid 30s onwards ) + they will have more energy than you

Thirdly, you will get a lot of more sh1t tests for the f8ckboy frame and you will need master level game all the time. Difficult to stay focused at the highest level all the time

fourthly, you need a good mixture of genes ( some people have bad genes and age really bad ) + taking really good care of you to make it work

* my assumption is that the focus is on women that are maximum maximum late 20s, not 30+ women or women with children or divorced, etc *

Good example with you friend, he does not have the energy anymore to put it towards chasing p8ssy
 
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Firstly, the more you age the less energy you will have, so it means that you have to be quite strategic towards where you put the energy. I do not think that chasing p8ssy all the time yields the best ROI

secondly, if you solo rely on f8ckboy aura the competition will be very fierce with younger f8ckboys that will naturally be more relatable to the younger crowd than you are ( especially from mid 30s onwards ) + they will have more energy than you

Thirdly, you will get a lot of more sh1t tests for the f8ckboy frame and you will need master level game all the time. Difficult to stay focused at the highest level all the time

* my assumption is that the focus is on women that are maximum maximum late 20s, not 30+ women or women with children or divorced, etc *
fair points, although when i say womanizing i don't mean chasing tons of ***** i moreso meant not committing to women and being highly selective. i definitely have an increasingly lower libido as I age so that's part of the reason I don't put in nearly as much effort that I used to. although, when I did a TRT cycle i was an absolute hound, and i'll probably be doing that a few more times over the next decade or so. also, i typically go for women around 18-30. women 35+ definitely give you a lot more shvt tests, which is hilarious to me because they're less desirable.

Patrice O'Neal had a bit about this I don't remember how it went exactly but he said women should be EASIER as they get older but it's the opposite. he said an older women should basically drop her bloomers on the first date or he's walking
 

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fair points, although when i say womanizing i don't mean chasing tons of ***** i moreso meant not committing to women and being highly selective. i definitely have less libido as I age so that's part of the reason I don't put in nearly as much effort that I used to. though, when I did a TRT cycle i was an absolute hound, and i'll probably be doing that a few more times over the next decade or so. also, i typically go for women around 18-30. women 35+ definitely give you a lot more shvt tests, which is hilarious to me because they're less desirable.

Patrice Oneal had a bit about this I don't remember how it went exactly but he said women should be EASIER as they get older but it's the opposite. he said an older women should basically drop their bloomers on the first date or he's walking
I am in my mid 30s and I also feel a drop in energy, and usually most interactions with women are so cringe or bad that it just s8cks me of the energy I have.

So in return I became pickier in whom I approach, but this also means less approaches overall and if you are not very alert you can easily go through a rough patch
 

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Firstly, the more you age the less energy you will have, so it means that you have to be quite strategic towards where you put the energy. I do not think that chasing p8ssy all the time yields the best ROI

secondly, if you solo rely on f8ckboy aura the competition will be very fierce with younger f8ckboys that will naturally be more relatable to the younger crowd than you are ( especially from mid 30s onwards ) + they will have more energy than you

Thirdly, you will get a lot of more sh1t tests for the f8ckboy frame and you will need master level game all the time. Difficult to stay focused at the highest level all the time

fourthly, you need a good mixture of genes ( some people have bad genes and age really bad ) + taking really good care of you to make it work

* my assumption is that the focus is on women that are maximum maximum late 20s, not 30+ women or women with children or divorced, etc *

Good example with you friend, he does not have the energy anymore to put it towards chasing p8ssy
You're making broad generalizations that don't necessarily hold up when you look at individuals. This is a classic case of upholding theory over experience.

If you said "most" people change a certain way, or generally people do this etc., those would be accurate statements.
 

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You're making broad generalizations that don't necessarily hold up when you look at individuals. This is a classic case of upholding theory over experience.

If you said "most" people change a certain way, or generally people do this etc., those would be accurate statements.
depends if we talk about semantics for the sake of talking semantics or if you want to add something of value to the topic

I do not know any guy my age or older that have a lot of energy

if that would be the case, then athletes would not retire in their early 30s for example

there are exceptions of athletes retiring way later, but these are exceptions and not the norm. Same with guys in general most likely
 

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depends if we talk about semantics for the sake of talking semantics or if you want to add something of value to the topic

I do not know any guy my age or older that have a lot of energy

if that would be the case, then athletes would not retire in their early 30s for example

there are exceptions of athletes retiring way later, but these are exceptions and not the norm
I'm 42 and I can run circles around most dudes in their 20's
 
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