"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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We really are all just animals.

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The title may mislead you. It'll make sense in a little while.

Today, my Psych professor put on a video for the class to watch. It struck a cord in my brain.

Let me explain a bit before you click the link. The main idea I got from it was that we all go through stress, but to different extents. In nature, animals only experience life-or-death stress. Humans experience the same feeling in a traffic jam. It goes on to elaborate on dominance, and the alpha male concept. The alpha male inflicts social stress on others, while his overwhelming power saves him a great deal of stress. I'm not gonna lie, it's a bit challenging for me to organize my thoughts right now. Just take my word for it, this video will make you think.

What it made me realize is that, we are just smart, highly-socialized animals. Some of us had to learn game through the internet, and naturals somehow just 'get it', but I realized that every single man on this planet is a PUA. There is no game. Sexuality is written in our nature. Difference is, so many of us try to hide it. We are living in a social hierarchy. Although MUCH MORE COMPLEX than that of the baboon we are the same for SO MANY REASONS. Just watch it.

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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