"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We really are all just animals.

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The title may mislead you. It'll make sense in a little while.

Today, my Psych professor put on a video for the class to watch. It struck a cord in my brain.

Let me explain a bit before you click the link. The main idea I got from it was that we all go through stress, but to different extents. In nature, animals only experience life-or-death stress. Humans experience the same feeling in a traffic jam. It goes on to elaborate on dominance, and the alpha male concept. The alpha male inflicts social stress on others, while his overwhelming power saves him a great deal of stress. I'm not gonna lie, it's a bit challenging for me to organize my thoughts right now. Just take my word for it, this video will make you think.

What it made me realize is that, we are just smart, highly-socialized animals. Some of us had to learn game through the internet, and naturals somehow just 'get it', but I realized that every single man on this planet is a PUA. There is no game. Sexuality is written in our nature. Difference is, so many of us try to hide it. We are living in a social hierarchy. Although MUCH MORE COMPLEX than that of the baboon we are the same for SO MANY REASONS. Just watch it.

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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