"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We need to UP our expectations and make it a point we will only accept a woman of VALUE!

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I have been absent for a few months and after reading through numerous threads I see many of us have been worn down to lower our expectations of these disappointing women in today's world.

We want a KIND woman
Loving woman.
appreciative woman.
caring woman
gracious woman
woman who takes pride in caring for her man and family.
A woman who is fullfilled by norturing or caring for her man and family...

Instead we have women who dont cook and barely clean and lay around on fb all day complaining we dont take them out to dinner enough. Never a thank you, never a kind gesture back at us.

It is time we UP our expectations and force these women to be better.

I just rid myself of one after 21 months, I was wonderful to the very end, caring, kind, loving, helpful and this woman slacked off for 7 months because I would NOT let her move in with me or marry her.
I told her I only know what you show me, and you are not showing me wife values...

Never a change so good bye..

Step it up guys do not put up with the lazy ME ME ME girl F them
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We want a KIND woman
Loving woman.
appreciative woman.
caring woman
gracious woman
woman who takes pride in caring for her man and family.
A woman who is fullfilled by norturing or caring for her man and family...
I want a purple unicorn.

I am gonna tell you a secret ............ready? Unicorns do not exist . NAWALT do no exist.
 

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The thing that stuns me is that research showing that woman lose attraction from men who do housework. I currently live alone in my own house. It's an old place so it's definitely not Better Homes and Gardens. I woke up early this morning so I'm doing housework and fixing my bathroom door and at the same time listening to my Chinese DVD as I'm learning. And yeah I cook Weston an Asian food too. I'm not saying that I'm great at all. This should be the absolute f****** minimum for an adult human being.

Sure I'll f*** as many lazy girls as I can. But why the hell would I want an LTR with a woman who is less useful than me
 

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I have been absent for a few months and after reading through numerous threads I see many of us have been worn down to lower our expectations of these disappointing women in today's world.

We want a KIND woman
Loving woman.
appreciative woman.
caring woman
gracious woman
woman who takes pride in caring for her man and family.
A woman who is fullfilled by norturing or caring for her man and family...

Instead we have women who dont cook and barely clean and lay around on fb all day complaining we dont take them out to dinner enough. Never a thank you, never a kind gesture back at us.

It is time we UP our expectations and force these women to be better.

I just rid myself of one after 21 months, I was wonderful to the very end, caring, kind, loving, helpful and this woman slacked off for 7 months because I would NOT let her move in with me or marry her.
I told her I only know what you show me, and you are not showing me wife values...

Never a change so good bye..

Step it up guys do not put up with the lazy ME ME ME girl F them
__________

Your expectations and your results are your issue.

Your mileage obviously varied. LOL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The thing that stuns me is that research showing that woman lose attraction from men who do housework. I currently live alone in my own house. It's an old place so it's definitely not Better Homes and Gardens. I woke up early this morning so I'm doing housework and fixing my bathroom door and at the same time listening to my Chinese DVD as I'm learning. And yeah I cook Weston an Asian food too. I'm not saying that I'm great at all. This should be the absolute f****** minimum for an adult human being.

Sure I'll f*** as many lazy girls as I can. But why the hell would I want an LTR with a woman who is less useful than me
It is not a turn off to be an adult and take care of your home, of course you have to clean it, and do laundry and do yard work, fix a door, get on the roof, cut a ****ing tree down with an ax like a badass man would do. These woman find any reason to be lazy. When I see a girl make dinner and be kind and nice it makes me want to be better and do more for her and myself. People have let these things slide....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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