"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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We need to UP our expectations and make it a point we will only accept a woman of VALUE!

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I have been absent for a few months and after reading through numerous threads I see many of us have been worn down to lower our expectations of these disappointing women in today's world.

We want a KIND woman
Loving woman.
appreciative woman.
caring woman
gracious woman
woman who takes pride in caring for her man and family.
A woman who is fullfilled by norturing or caring for her man and family...

Instead we have women who dont cook and barely clean and lay around on fb all day complaining we dont take them out to dinner enough. Never a thank you, never a kind gesture back at us.

It is time we UP our expectations and force these women to be better.

I just rid myself of one after 21 months, I was wonderful to the very end, caring, kind, loving, helpful and this woman slacked off for 7 months because I would NOT let her move in with me or marry her.
I told her I only know what you show me, and you are not showing me wife values...

Never a change so good bye..

Step it up guys do not put up with the lazy ME ME ME girl F them
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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We want a KIND woman
Loving woman.
appreciative woman.
caring woman
gracious woman
woman who takes pride in caring for her man and family.
A woman who is fullfilled by norturing or caring for her man and family...
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I want a purple unicorn.

I am gonna tell you a secret ............ready? Unicorns do not exist . NAWALT do no exist.
 
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The thing that stuns me is that research showing that woman lose attraction from men who do housework. I currently live alone in my own house. It's an old place so it's definitely not Better Homes and Gardens. I woke up early this morning so I'm doing housework and fixing my bathroom door and at the same time listening to my Chinese DVD as I'm learning. And yeah I cook Weston an Asian food too. I'm not saying that I'm great at all. This should be the absolute f****** minimum for an adult human being.

Sure I'll f*** as many lazy girls as I can. But why the hell would I want an LTR with a woman who is less useful than me
 
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exhausted said:
I have been absent for a few months and after reading through numerous threads I see many of us have been worn down to lower our expectations of these disappointing women in today's world.

We want a KIND woman
Loving woman.
appreciative woman.
caring woman
gracious woman
woman who takes pride in caring for her man and family.
A woman who is fullfilled by norturing or caring for her man and family...

Instead we have women who dont cook and barely clean and lay around on fb all day complaining we dont take them out to dinner enough. Never a thank you, never a kind gesture back at us.

It is time we UP our expectations and force these women to be better.

I just rid myself of one after 21 months, I was wonderful to the very end, caring, kind, loving, helpful and this woman slacked off for 7 months because I would NOT let her move in with me or marry her.
I told her I only know what you show me, and you are not showing me wife values...

Never a change so good bye..

Step it up guys do not put up with the lazy ME ME ME girl F them
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Your expectations and your results are your issue.

Your mileage obviously varied. LOL
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ubercat said:
The thing that stuns me is that research showing that woman lose attraction from men who do housework. I currently live alone in my own house. It's an old place so it's definitely not Better Homes and Gardens. I woke up early this morning so I'm doing housework and fixing my bathroom door and at the same time listening to my Chinese DVD as I'm learning. And yeah I cook Weston an Asian food too. I'm not saying that I'm great at all. This should be the absolute f****** minimum for an adult human being.

Sure I'll f*** as many lazy girls as I can. But why the hell would I want an LTR with a woman who is less useful than me
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It is not a turn off to be an adult and take care of your home, of course you have to clean it, and do laundry and do yard work, fix a door, get on the roof, cut a ****ing tree down with an ax like a badass man would do. These woman find any reason to be lazy. When I see a girl make dinner and be kind and nice it makes me want to be better and do more for her and myself. People have let these things slide....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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