There are too many sexually unattractive men spreading nonsense, and it's gotten out of hand.
New Rule: You shouldn’t be allowed to discuss theories or "Alpha male" nonsense unless you’ve confidently reached a point where you never go longer than a month without sex unless by choice. Otherwise, you’re not sexually attractive to women and should focus on more productive pursuits. In a relationship or hopping from one partner to another? Fine, but if you broke up with your partner right now, you should feel confident in finding someone new within a month.
If that's the case 80% of the forum would disappear you have to remember there are a lot of "silent members" who don't post and read the forum because they are noobs(nothing wrong with that). The main issue is when you have guys who have limited experience that post the most and guys who have experince tend to post less and less.
The game actually is supposed to get easier as you get older or have more experience. It's like working out, when you first start, you may be sore you may not even lift properly cause you're form is off, however if you're consistent, hitting the gym 3-5 days a week. You should have a far better shape then when you first started because of your consistiency and knowledge that you aquire about excerise and diet etc.. IMO the same is true with seduction. If you're actively talking to women, pursuing women, trying to date women etc. Eventually you should become better especially if you're also working on other things to help your dating/mating prospects.
For me I'm more impressed with a guy who is in an LTR or married. I know this may seem like a contradiction to most on a seduction forum but IMO if you've been on the forum for 5+ years and still struggling to get sex or talk to women. You are either not taken action, or have to work on things that hinder you. There are some members who actually have regressed and their issue isn't women at all but they need some deep psychological help. Most guys who do take action will improve and over the years we have known this to be true cause members end up in LTR's will come back once it ends or they will end up married etc.
The main Issue I have with modern RP advice or Pua advice is it focuses to much on female nature and not applicable steps to help you improve beyond looks money and status.
The metaphysical aspect of game(or Social Mastery as I like to call it) is seldom talked about anymore and has been watered down so much that if you talk about it, people think that you're speaking mumbo jumbo, it's all about superficiality, hence when you watch these RP dorks they all sound the same(Looks money and status) when you do bring up Social Mastery concepts nowadays most men have no clue and this is why a lot of men struggle with women even men who have the "Looks money and status"
Women aren't logical yet you have guys who think L+M+S= Success with women, meanwhile you have a bum who has none of this but he may understand the metaphysical aspects of women and seduction.
It's like a great salesman who isn't even selling you per se but having a natural conversation that leads to a sale!
What do I mean by metaphysical(Or Social Mastery)?
Energy matching-For example, you're an introvert on a date with an extrovert woman who may be a party girl. Talking about Nitchze and Freud is probably going to make the coochie dry. Are you able to be centered and put a woman at ease, are you able to control your breath and inner calm. Are you able to have her energy match yours? This is something even advanced guys sometimes struggle with.
Eliciting emotions-Are you able to convey your passions, hobbies, dreams in a manner that shows who you are without performing for others, are you able to make her
FEEL this is something other than boredom? This is something that "Bad boys" are able to do without thinking, most men are just not that interesting to women on an emotional level, hence you have women now using words like emotional intelligence(that word wasn't as popular 10 years ago). Most guys only get excited if they know they are about to have sex or are having sex
. The law of emotional contagion is a real thing, there are men who have never had to study it and they know how to do it effortlessly
Frame control-are you able to set the tone and reality frame, guys like Snowplowman who used to post here use to talk a lot about this. Even if you're smiling and pretending to be confident if subconsciously you're needy and outcome dependent women will pick up on this. Remember 80% of communication is non-verbal.
Conversational alchemy-Can you take a woman who is stressed out on a date, and have her laughing until snot comes out of her nose? Being able to "spit" game isn't about lines or punchlines. It's the ability to convey your thoughts, emotions that resonate with a woman. One thing that helped me with this is when I use to be a salesmen selling pharmaceutical products over the phone. I didn't have body language to go off. Just my voice. Are you a great storyteller? Are you able to tell a story without draggin it on? Do you have stories that make you interesting
The power of presence- Can you be fully present in an interaction, and utlize frame control that will also make a woman present to the point that she is mirroring you? To the point she is not checking her phone when she is with you. Are you immersed in the moment? Or are you stuck in your head, thinking to yourself what you need to do next etc
There are many more things. Stuff like that we use to talk about on here but over time the guys who understood these things or talked about these things left the forum and the new generation doesn't know about these things much and hence are left with "watered down" game.
Then you're left with LMS, meanwhile, when you ask guys about the metaphysical, they have no clue because they haven't mastered it or don't understand it.
