"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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We need to get a new C+F thread started

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Jango_Xavier

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Guys(oh yeah & the few chicks on this site :)), we really need to get a new C+F thread started, the one in the bible is great but there's not really many examples.
Yeah u guys will be thinking, c'mon Jango ur the one bringing this up so u should start off with some c+f examples but, the last 2 months ive been way way too busy to really pick up chicks & be c+f well apart from the occassional clubbing but, there u cant be c+f, way too loud.
If i start giving c+f example's everyone will laugh cause theyre so lame:D (not that i really care:p), im spontanious so, i cant think up of c+f right off the bat sitting behind the pc being a Keyboard Jockey.
So c'mon people lets hear ur c+f side.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl says: "I've seen you before.." or, "I recognize you from somewhere..."

Reply: "Yeah, you might have seen my billboard."
 
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most of my "C+F" is off the collar, spur of the moment. cant really remember any, but if i do, they'll be here
 
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C+F is more an attitude then regurgitated lines that you memorize... If this site has taught me anything - that's it. I'd suggest FINDING a friend who's C+ F by nature, or has taught himself how to be C+F, and stay in his presence, learn by example.
 
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