"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We need to get a new C+F thread started

Jango_Xavier

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Guys(oh yeah & the few chicks on this site :)), we really need to get a new C+F thread started, the one in the bible is great but there's not really many examples.
Yeah u guys will be thinking, c'mon Jango ur the one bringing this up so u should start off with some c+f examples but, the last 2 months ive been way way too busy to really pick up chicks & be c+f well apart from the occassional clubbing but, there u cant be c+f, way too loud.
If i start giving c+f example's everyone will laugh cause theyre so lame:D (not that i really care:p), im spontanious so, i cant think up of c+f right off the bat sitting behind the pc being a Keyboard Jockey.
So c'mon people lets hear ur c+f side.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl says: "I've seen you before.." or, "I recognize you from somewhere..."

Reply: "Yeah, you might have seen my billboard."
 

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most of my "C+F" is off the collar, spur of the moment. cant really remember any, but if i do, they'll be here
 

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C+F is more an attitude then regurgitated lines that you memorize... If this site has taught me anything - that's it. I'd suggest FINDING a friend who's C+ F by nature, or has taught himself how to be C+F, and stay in his presence, learn by example.
 
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