"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BuckwildSantos

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I'm not sure this is the right part of the forum to post in but what the heck ;)

Recently I broke up with my girlfriend and I've been trying to get into the game.. and so far I managed to get a new ****buddy (~3 weeks after breaking up) but I don't feel like continueing with that, simply because it was too easy.

Now I have a friend where, who is American (I'm Dutch) and he's also familiar with the whole DJ thing.

We're obviously looking to be eachothers wingman in certain situations, and we have a very powerfull card we can play, the American Guy card :) The sad thing is, we don't know how! A lot of these girls get all excited when they notice my friend is american and want to chat up, but he cant seem to close anything, only get numbers so they can "meet up" at the bar we go to every tues- & thursdays.

I'm calling out to our fellow DJs to help us out, we have absolutely no clue how to get this **** rolling, as I've never been a wingman to anyone.. So I'm pretty much terribad at taking friends of his target away. We just need to know how to play the goddamn card :confused:

thanks in advance
BWS
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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borodika

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WE need help

Me too.I always did it right after I got my materia back, but you dont need to.All you need to do is just use are a couple of items that contain Bio 2 and it becomes pretty easy.
 

PeterIncirtynitDit

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WE need help

The "OTA FAQ and Knowledge Base" is a very good place to start.

It would also help the users here if you listed your location. There may be many others around you who could offer more area-specific help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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