"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BuckwildSantos

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I'm not sure this is the right part of the forum to post in but what the heck ;)

Recently I broke up with my girlfriend and I've been trying to get into the game.. and so far I managed to get a new ****buddy (~3 weeks after breaking up) but I don't feel like continueing with that, simply because it was too easy.

Now I have a friend where, who is American (I'm Dutch) and he's also familiar with the whole DJ thing.

We're obviously looking to be eachothers wingman in certain situations, and we have a very powerfull card we can play, the American Guy card :) The sad thing is, we don't know how! A lot of these girls get all excited when they notice my friend is american and want to chat up, but he cant seem to close anything, only get numbers so they can "meet up" at the bar we go to every tues- & thursdays.

I'm calling out to our fellow DJs to help us out, we have absolutely no clue how to get this **** rolling, as I've never been a wingman to anyone.. So I'm pretty much terribad at taking friends of his target away. We just need to know how to play the goddamn card :confused:

thanks in advance
BWS
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WE need help

Me too.I always did it right after I got my materia back, but you dont need to.All you need to do is just use are a couple of items that contain Bio 2 and it becomes pretty easy.
 

PeterIncirtynitDit

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WE need help

The "OTA FAQ and Knowledge Base" is a very good place to start.

It would also help the users here if you listed your location. There may be many others around you who could offer more area-specific help.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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