"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BuckwildSantos

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I'm not sure this is the right part of the forum to post in but what the heck ;)

Recently I broke up with my girlfriend and I've been trying to get into the game.. and so far I managed to get a new ****buddy (~3 weeks after breaking up) but I don't feel like continueing with that, simply because it was too easy.

Now I have a friend where, who is American (I'm Dutch) and he's also familiar with the whole DJ thing.

We're obviously looking to be eachothers wingman in certain situations, and we have a very powerfull card we can play, the American Guy card :) The sad thing is, we don't know how! A lot of these girls get all excited when they notice my friend is american and want to chat up, but he cant seem to close anything, only get numbers so they can "meet up" at the bar we go to every tues- & thursdays.

I'm calling out to our fellow DJs to help us out, we have absolutely no clue how to get this **** rolling, as I've never been a wingman to anyone.. So I'm pretty much terribad at taking friends of his target away. We just need to know how to play the goddamn card :confused:

thanks in advance
BWS
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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borodika

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WE need help

Me too.I always did it right after I got my materia back, but you dont need to.All you need to do is just use are a couple of items that contain Bio 2 and it becomes pretty easy.
 

PeterIncirtynitDit

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WE need help

The "OTA FAQ and Knowledge Base" is a very good place to start.

It would also help the users here if you listed your location. There may be many others around you who could offer more area-specific help.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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