VladPatton
Master Don Juan
You guys read/hear about this shıt lately? The fücker put a ring on that chick. Now I can't use him as an example anymore, fück! All I hope is that his prenup is water-tight. Toughts?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
skinnyguy said:Marriage isn't just for faggots. Some of you are so jaded about relationships
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That makes total sense. But if she has finally met her "alpha" in Clooney, she'll probably be on her best behavior. At least for awhile.bradd80 said:Dating a lawyer who's female is like torture. They argue about everything
bradd80 said:Are you kidding Kiebler is probably wealthier than the lawyer chick five times over. Besides the new lawyer chick is ugly as sin. I'd post a pic of her together with Clooney, but I couldn't find any. But the woman's so ugly I can understand why George wouldn't want to be seen with her and hid his relationship with her from the public for so long.
I don't know what the big deal is about Clooney, I think he's the biggest douchebag but that's just my opinion.
Dating a lawyer who's female is like torture. They argue about everything, every little thing is like a federal case with rules of evidence and procedure and they have a (usually feminist) opinion on everything. They also tend to have a lifelong need to prove that they are just as good as or even better than men, because that's how they've been used to acting in their profession their whole lives.
Good luck to George, that's what I say. And he better have an iron-clad sep agreement, this one's guaranteed not to last.
LOL, all women argue about everything..at least a lawyer would actually use facts and evidence instead of the make believe sh*t the average women throws at you when arguing.bradd80 said:Dating a lawyer who's female is like torture. They argue about everything, every little thing is like a federal case with rules of evidence and procedure and they have a (usually feminist) opinion on everything. They also tend to have a lifelong need to prove that they are just as good as or even better than men, because that's how they've been used to acting in their profession their whole lives.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Not all women, although there was a time when I would have agreed with you. My girlfriend and I rarely argue, you could count the number of arguments we've had on one hand. She's one of the most laid back, mellow people I know. And besides, what is there to argue about?yyc12 said:LOL, all women argue about everything.