"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I dont usually ask for help but this situation is a little more tricky.
You newbs can answer too even if you dont know what youre talkin about just so i have a lot of opinions.

Theres this girl that i know whos pretty fine. I saw her last night at some club and talked to her and got her number all that crap. She promised me that if i held her friends purse that shed do anything that i wanted. Then i thought i heard her say, do u want me, then she walked away. Before we left i talked to her again to see what they were doin after and she sed goin to her friends house and that we should come. So i sed uh ok and all that sh*t. My only problem is that i dont know how to go about this situation. I wanna chill with her one on one, but i dont wanna make it look like shes hot sh*t cause shes pretty ****y. Some opinions would be awsome.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Black Casanova
Neg-hits.
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I do that...it works. I need opinions on how to go about starting some kinda relationship with her. To me its like playing chess, if i make a mistake i lose. So yea..help
 
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personally, i don't like ****y girls at all, cuz they usually lack femininity and they usually think they're amazing people just because guys are drooling all over them all the time.

anyway, i'd say just chill with her if you want but make sure you don't give her too much attention and don't spend too much time with her.
 
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Whenever you can, make sure she hears that "her personality and her funny way of carrying herself" makes her more attractive...

use innuendos and indirect phrases... so she'll think that you don't consider her really pretty, but you like her because of her personality...

If she buys into you, then you're game... because she'll have to work hard to maintain things that way, otherwise she knows that if you start to find her boring you'll give her the boot ;)

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Whenever you can, make sure she hears that "her personality and her funny way of carrying herself" makes her more attractive...

use innuendos and indirect phrases... so she'll think that you don't consider her really pretty, but you like her because of her personality...

If she buys into you, then you're game... because she'll have to work hard to maintain things that way, otherwise she knows that if you start to find her boring you'll give her the boot ;)

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I like the way you think. Anyone else??
 
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You got a confident attention wh0re there bro. With these types, a ton of neghits, kino, faking disintrest, etc will make you money. Don't spend too much time on her though.
 
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