"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I dont usually ask for help but this situation is a little more tricky.
You newbs can answer too even if you dont know what youre talkin about just so i have a lot of opinions.

Theres this girl that i know whos pretty fine. I saw her last night at some club and talked to her and got her number all that crap. She promised me that if i held her friends purse that shed do anything that i wanted. Then i thought i heard her say, do u want me, then she walked away. Before we left i talked to her again to see what they were doin after and she sed goin to her friends house and that we should come. So i sed uh ok and all that sh*t. My only problem is that i dont know how to go about this situation. I wanna chill with her one on one, but i dont wanna make it look like shes hot sh*t cause shes pretty ****y. Some opinions would be awsome.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Black Casanova
Neg-hits.
I do that...it works. I need opinions on how to go about starting some kinda relationship with her. To me its like playing chess, if i make a mistake i lose. So yea..help
 

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personally, i don't like ****y girls at all, cuz they usually lack femininity and they usually think they're amazing people just because guys are drooling all over them all the time.

anyway, i'd say just chill with her if you want but make sure you don't give her too much attention and don't spend too much time with her.
 

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Whenever you can, make sure she hears that "her personality and her funny way of carrying herself" makes her more attractive...

use innuendos and indirect phrases... so she'll think that you don't consider her really pretty, but you like her because of her personality...

If she buys into you, then you're game... because she'll have to work hard to maintain things that way, otherwise she knows that if you start to find her boring you'll give her the boot ;)

BBB
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Whenever you can, make sure she hears that "her personality and her funny way of carrying herself" makes her more attractive...

use innuendos and indirect phrases... so she'll think that you don't consider her really pretty, but you like her because of her personality...

If she buys into you, then you're game... because she'll have to work hard to maintain things that way, otherwise she knows that if you start to find her boring you'll give her the boot ;)

BBB
I like the way you think. Anyone else??
 

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You got a confident attention wh0re there bro. With these types, a ton of neghits, kino, faking disintrest, etc will make you money. Don't spend too much time on her though.
 
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