"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dont usually ask for help but this situation is a little more tricky.
You newbs can answer too even if you dont know what youre talkin about just so i have a lot of opinions.

Theres this girl that i know whos pretty fine. I saw her last night at some club and talked to her and got her number all that crap. She promised me that if i held her friends purse that shed do anything that i wanted. Then i thought i heard her say, do u want me, then she walked away. Before we left i talked to her again to see what they were doin after and she sed goin to her friends house and that we should come. So i sed uh ok and all that sh*t. My only problem is that i dont know how to go about this situation. I wanna chill with her one on one, but i dont wanna make it look like shes hot sh*t cause shes pretty ****y. Some opinions would be awsome.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Black Casanova
Neg-hits.
I do that...it works. I need opinions on how to go about starting some kinda relationship with her. To me its like playing chess, if i make a mistake i lose. So yea..help
 

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personally, i don't like ****y girls at all, cuz they usually lack femininity and they usually think they're amazing people just because guys are drooling all over them all the time.

anyway, i'd say just chill with her if you want but make sure you don't give her too much attention and don't spend too much time with her.
 

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Whenever you can, make sure she hears that "her personality and her funny way of carrying herself" makes her more attractive...

use innuendos and indirect phrases... so she'll think that you don't consider her really pretty, but you like her because of her personality...

If she buys into you, then you're game... because she'll have to work hard to maintain things that way, otherwise she knows that if you start to find her boring you'll give her the boot ;)

BBB
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
Whenever you can, make sure she hears that "her personality and her funny way of carrying herself" makes her more attractive...

use innuendos and indirect phrases... so she'll think that you don't consider her really pretty, but you like her because of her personality...

If she buys into you, then you're game... because she'll have to work hard to maintain things that way, otherwise she knows that if you start to find her boring you'll give her the boot ;)

BBB
I like the way you think. Anyone else??
 

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You got a confident attention wh0re there bro. With these types, a ton of neghits, kino, faking disintrest, etc will make you money. Don't spend too much time on her though.
 
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