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Don Juan
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Guys....please help me out here. I know you can!
Some background info.... me and this girl were really close for about 2 months. She is a foreigner so had to go back home for half a month. I dont know what happened, but upon her return she began to change. Right now her life is undergoing a lot of changes as well and its taxing on her personally.
She decided to live with a roommate, which she didnt use to do (so it was convenient for me to come over), and started to bring her roommate along for all our dates (which didnt used to happen either). I was unhappy and brought it up, and basically she didnt want to hear about it. I was still normal when we met up but I guess the emotion showed on my face.
All that came to a boil last weekend when I handled a matter wrongly (I admit that). She basically blew up. Called me names, said I wasnt worth her getting angry over, and told me to get lost. I tried to explain what I could and left.
Still felt pretty bad the next day.....but she contacts me and asks to have dinner with her and roommate (yes again). I'm really not a petty person so I'm ok with it. In spite of the words that were said, the dinner goes along smoothly, but I dont talk much as I'm still feeling sore.
Usually she calls me pretty often....yesterday I called and there was no response...and no return call. Tried a few fimes, finally got through at 1am, checked that she was safely home and hung up.
No calls from her today either. I'm still not feeling good so I didnt initiate anything, so no contact for today (which is really really rare), we used to contact everyday.
Shes the kind of person who reacts very strongly to emotions....and this prevents me from bringing up the topics that I'm unhappy with. I know it all looks bad..... how should I approach this with style and maturity? I do want to give it another shot but I dont know whether she's up to it judging from her actions these 2 days.
What do you think guys?
Some background info.... me and this girl were really close for about 2 months. She is a foreigner so had to go back home for half a month. I dont know what happened, but upon her return she began to change. Right now her life is undergoing a lot of changes as well and its taxing on her personally.
She decided to live with a roommate, which she didnt use to do (so it was convenient for me to come over), and started to bring her roommate along for all our dates (which didnt used to happen either). I was unhappy and brought it up, and basically she didnt want to hear about it. I was still normal when we met up but I guess the emotion showed on my face.
All that came to a boil last weekend when I handled a matter wrongly (I admit that). She basically blew up. Called me names, said I wasnt worth her getting angry over, and told me to get lost. I tried to explain what I could and left.
Still felt pretty bad the next day.....but she contacts me and asks to have dinner with her and roommate (yes again). I'm really not a petty person so I'm ok with it. In spite of the words that were said, the dinner goes along smoothly, but I dont talk much as I'm still feeling sore.
Usually she calls me pretty often....yesterday I called and there was no response...and no return call. Tried a few fimes, finally got through at 1am, checked that she was safely home and hung up.
No calls from her today either. I'm still not feeling good so I didnt initiate anything, so no contact for today (which is really really rare), we used to contact everyday.
Shes the kind of person who reacts very strongly to emotions....and this prevents me from bringing up the topics that I'm unhappy with. I know it all looks bad..... how should I approach this with style and maturity? I do want to give it another shot but I dont know whether she's up to it judging from her actions these 2 days.
What do you think guys?
