"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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We dont get what we deserve in life, we get what we attract.

thechallenger

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if you feel like crap and are down
that what your gunna get holmes
like a frequency magnet
youll get a b1tch but just as depressed as you
fix yourself first then women will arrive
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I love it. :)
 

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You nailed it thechallanger. Put it on your sig so you can inform and learn everyone on SoSuave about this.
Great, simple, petit and awesome post :) Like a gourmet dish!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bonafide said:
Bull****. I've been happy for years, still no girl.
What you admit to yourself is always inevitable to re acre
 

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Have you guys heard of the law of attraction? It is pretty powerfull stuff I just watched a movie on it called The Secret. Basically it says that we are all made up of energy; our thoughts and feelings create energy waves that attract similar things or whatever it may be that you are feeling/thinking.
 

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Desert Rose said:
Have you guys heard of the law of attraction? It is pretty powerfull stuff I just watched a movie on it called The Secret. Basically it says that we are all made up of energy; our thoughts and feelings create energy waves that attract similar things or whatever it may be that you are feeling/thinking.
Yea, thats where he got this post from.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I honestly think the whole "secret" stuff is BS. A lot in that movie didn't make any sense at all. However, I do think that people can pick up the slightest vibes of insecurity from one another. Therefore the OP has a real good point. You need to not think about getting rejected or whatever just let it happen on it's own.

And to Bonafide, it's obvious your past (and the prospect of the future) is dragging you down. Find your niche, get comfortable, and wreak havoc my man.
 

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Good thread OP! You're 100% right we get what we attract.

SickAgain said:
I honestly think the whole "secret" stuff is BS. A lot in that movie didn't make any sense at all. However, I do think that people can pick up the slightest vibes of insecurity from one another. Therefore the OP has a real good point. You need to not think about getting rejected or whatever just let it happen on it's own.
The law of attraction is based on new scientific discoveries. I've spent many hours reading about it from all sorts of angles and the more I read the more sense it all makes.
 
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