"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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We dont get what we deserve in life, we get what we attract.

thechallenger

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if you feel like crap and are down
that what your gunna get holmes
like a frequency magnet
youll get a b1tch but just as depressed as you
fix yourself first then women will arrive
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Aragon034

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I love it. :)
 

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You nailed it thechallanger. Put it on your sig so you can inform and learn everyone on SoSuave about this.
Great, simple, petit and awesome post :) Like a gourmet dish!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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frisco

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Bonafide said:
Bull****. I've been happy for years, still no girl.
What you admit to yourself is always inevitable to re acre
 

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Have you guys heard of the law of attraction? It is pretty powerfull stuff I just watched a movie on it called The Secret. Basically it says that we are all made up of energy; our thoughts and feelings create energy waves that attract similar things or whatever it may be that you are feeling/thinking.
 

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Desert Rose said:
Have you guys heard of the law of attraction? It is pretty powerfull stuff I just watched a movie on it called The Secret. Basically it says that we are all made up of energy; our thoughts and feelings create energy waves that attract similar things or whatever it may be that you are feeling/thinking.
Yea, thats where he got this post from.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SickAgain

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I honestly think the whole "secret" stuff is BS. A lot in that movie didn't make any sense at all. However, I do think that people can pick up the slightest vibes of insecurity from one another. Therefore the OP has a real good point. You need to not think about getting rejected or whatever just let it happen on it's own.

And to Bonafide, it's obvious your past (and the prospect of the future) is dragging you down. Find your niche, get comfortable, and wreak havoc my man.
 

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Good thread OP! You're 100% right we get what we attract.

SickAgain said:
I honestly think the whole "secret" stuff is BS. A lot in that movie didn't make any sense at all. However, I do think that people can pick up the slightest vibes of insecurity from one another. Therefore the OP has a real good point. You need to not think about getting rejected or whatever just let it happen on it's own.
The law of attraction is based on new scientific discoveries. I've spent many hours reading about it from all sorts of angles and the more I read the more sense it all makes.
 
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