"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We can't be friends!!

Seeker911

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Both of us started working together and I started liking her and told her once but she said that she looked at me as a friend. After that she started getting really close and started planning doing **** together and I thought that may be she is changing her mind. But I've had enough now told here that we can't be friends, and don't ever try to contact me again, also delted her from the Facebook (I deleted her once from FB and she added me back after sometime.. seems like she lacks some self respect). She hasn't so far and I'm not even waiting for it. I'm more happy.
One thing that is bothering me is that if I interpreted the thing wrong or should I have gone to that extent of telling her not to contact me again.

What you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bmp2cpm

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I think if you had other women that were interested in you and you were interested in them that you would have never made this post.

Is this sosuave or enotalone????

Plates=options=not caring too much about one particular woman

Also put career first. Good career will attract more than one woman. A woman at work can hurt your career more than you can possibly imagine.
 

VladPatton

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You shouldn't of burned that bridge. Forget what she says, you could of still tried sporadically to bang her every so often.
 

sodbuster

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NEVER sh1t where you eat!!!!! Sexual harassment will f*ck up your day, month, year or LIFE.... Depending on how fem centric the area you are working in is....
 

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We no longer work together it's been a year. Since then I have never initiated any contact. She has been the one taking me to dinners, movies and texting on her expense.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Seeker911

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To correct not her expense, sometimes it's her and sometimes it's me but I never initiated any converstion.
 

latinnova

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Umm... you could have just stopped contacting her or just made it seem like you were really busy. Let her go her own way, you go your own way. She might have contacted you later down the road out of the blue. I have had that happen. I say just part amicably, who knows what will happen later on down the road?
 

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I tried doing that too but then I would get the random texts from her and the blocked calls. I ignored a few time but she was persistent, also tried to hack into my facebook account.(she told me that)
 
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