"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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we both ended things by neutral decision now shes gettin nasty

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yesterday my and a girl ive been seeing decided to stop contct till she is over her ex. now i did a full day of no contact there was no hard feelings and ive just woke up to a few messages and missed calls askin what im doin and why am i ignoring her.the last message was glad u had a great night sleeping with another woman.... i was sleepin alone in my bed i didnt even see a message till this morn. why is she starting an argument
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sandcastlebuilder said:
yesterday my and a girl ive been seeing decided to stop contct till she is over her ex. now i did a full day of no contact there was no hard feelings and ive just woke up to a few messages and missed calls askin what im doin and why am i ignoring her.the last message was glad u had a great night sleeping with another woman.... i was sleepin alone in my bed i didnt even see a message till this morn. why is she starting an argument
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Ditch her.
 
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Keep no contact, don't bend your back for her. She doesn;t know what to do, you don't seem to know what to do either, just keep NC.
 
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sandcastlebuilder said:
yesterday my and a girl ive been seeing decided to stop contct till she is over her ex. now i did a full day of no contact there was no hard feelings and ive just woke up to a few messages and missed calls askin what im doin and why am i ignoring her.the last message was glad u had a great night sleeping with another woman.... i was sleepin alone in my bed i didnt even see a message till this morn. why is she starting an argument
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Because she is a chick. When they don't get attention they try to force you to give them attention.

You can agree on all the parameters you want but when she wants your attention she will pull crap until she gets it. As they say in child psychology, negative attention is better than being ignored.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LOL. She took you for granted and now she regrets it and wants you back. I'd prolly play around with her. Get her to do what you want. I mean after clearly showing you that she cares more about her ex than you, then she at least owes it to you as an apology anyway. Besides, she'll love you more for it. The more a woman does things for you, the more she will like you. This goes for men too. The reason is because when you invest so much into something, you are less likely to let it go and give up on it. I'd say to just toy with her. After what she did to you, she deserves it. And so do you.
 
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I guess she doesn't know what being on a break means. You'll have to explain it to her better.
 
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