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we both ended things by neutral decision now shes gettin nasty

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yesterday my and a girl ive been seeing decided to stop contct till she is over her ex. now i did a full day of no contact there was no hard feelings and ive just woke up to a few messages and missed calls askin what im doin and why am i ignoring her.the last message was glad u had a great night sleeping with another woman.... i was sleepin alone in my bed i didnt even see a message till this morn. why is she starting an argument
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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yesterday my and a girl ive been seeing decided to stop contct till she is over her ex. now i did a full day of no contact there was no hard feelings and ive just woke up to a few messages and missed calls askin what im doin and why am i ignoring her.the last message was glad u had a great night sleeping with another woman.... i was sleepin alone in my bed i didnt even see a message till this morn. why is she starting an argument
Ditch her.
 

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Keep no contact, don't bend your back for her. She doesn;t know what to do, you don't seem to know what to do either, just keep NC.
 

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yesterday my and a girl ive been seeing decided to stop contct till she is over her ex. now i did a full day of no contact there was no hard feelings and ive just woke up to a few messages and missed calls askin what im doin and why am i ignoring her.the last message was glad u had a great night sleeping with another woman.... i was sleepin alone in my bed i didnt even see a message till this morn. why is she starting an argument
Because she is a chick. When they don't get attention they try to force you to give them attention.

You can agree on all the parameters you want but when she wants your attention she will pull crap until she gets it. As they say in child psychology, negative attention is better than being ignored.
 

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LOL. She took you for granted and now she regrets it and wants you back. I'd prolly play around with her. Get her to do what you want. I mean after clearly showing you that she cares more about her ex than you, then she at least owes it to you as an apology anyway. Besides, she'll love you more for it. The more a woman does things for you, the more she will like you. This goes for men too. The reason is because when you invest so much into something, you are less likely to let it go and give up on it. I'd say to just toy with her. After what she did to you, she deserves it. And so do you.
 

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I guess she doesn't know what being on a break means. You'll have to explain it to her better.
 
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