"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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guywhoneedshelp

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZppKan5UNck hanging out with them on Thursday

As you can see I had some IL from the girls playing scrabble but on the train we had some IH because we told them how we all worked in the television business.

Have a cool career and it will work to your advantage.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LOLOL i love when he's all excited to be hanging out with the girls he gets so serious he's like "i was talkin to them. they wanna hang out."
 

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which one are you? One guy seems like he could be the PUA - striped shirt, whose talking for example at the 6:00 mark.. that's u?
 

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Your buddy wanted to play chess in a bar? wtf. :kick: "There are some pool tables, some other stuff we can do" lolol while the camera was like focusing on girl's butts. :D

Not too much sarging though. You guys should have gamed a little more in the train. The girls seemed to be leaning in, they were interested.

You were the best looking of the 3, you should have tried to escalate some sets in the bar... you buds would have learned something.
 

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daygameguy said:
Your buddy wanted to play chess in a bar? wtf. :kick: "There are some pool tables, some other stuff we can do" lolol while the camera was like focusing on girl's butts. :D

Not too much sarging though. You guys should have gamed a little more in the train. The girls seemed to be leaning in, they were interested.

You were the best looking of the 3, you should have tried to escalate some sets in the bar... you buds would have learned something.
I closed some, not too much of it on camera though. I closed those girls on the train, before we even got on the train. (HB8 named Carol, you don't see her in the video at all)

And yea I'm in the striped shirt.

About the chess, it was so early. After a few hours the alcohol kicked in and the girls were so chill it was awesome. NYC girls tend to be stuck up
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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