"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZppKan5UNck hanging out with them on Thursday

As you can see I had some IL from the girls playing scrabble but on the train we had some IH because we told them how we all worked in the television business.

Have a cool career and it will work to your advantage.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LOLOL i love when he's all excited to be hanging out with the girls he gets so serious he's like "i was talkin to them. they wanna hang out."
 

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which one are you? One guy seems like he could be the PUA - striped shirt, whose talking for example at the 6:00 mark.. that's u?
 

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Your buddy wanted to play chess in a bar? wtf. :kick: "There are some pool tables, some other stuff we can do" lolol while the camera was like focusing on girl's butts. :D

Not too much sarging though. You guys should have gamed a little more in the train. The girls seemed to be leaning in, they were interested.

You were the best looking of the 3, you should have tried to escalate some sets in the bar... you buds would have learned something.
 

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daygameguy said:
Your buddy wanted to play chess in a bar? wtf. :kick: "There are some pool tables, some other stuff we can do" lolol while the camera was like focusing on girl's butts. :D

Not too much sarging though. You guys should have gamed a little more in the train. The girls seemed to be leaning in, they were interested.

You were the best looking of the 3, you should have tried to escalate some sets in the bar... you buds would have learned something.
I closed some, not too much of it on camera though. I closed those girls on the train, before we even got on the train. (HB8 named Carol, you don't see her in the video at all)

And yea I'm in the striped shirt.

About the chess, it was so early. After a few hours the alcohol kicked in and the girls were so chill it was awesome. NYC girls tend to be stuck up
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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