"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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guywhoneedshelp

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZppKan5UNck hanging out with them on Thursday

As you can see I had some IL from the girls playing scrabble but on the train we had some IH because we told them how we all worked in the television business.

Have a cool career and it will work to your advantage.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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guywhoneedshelp

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LOLOL i love when he's all excited to be hanging out with the girls he gets so serious he's like "i was talkin to them. they wanna hang out."
 

DJVladdy

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which one are you? One guy seems like he could be the PUA - striped shirt, whose talking for example at the 6:00 mark.. that's u?
 

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Your buddy wanted to play chess in a bar? wtf. :kick: "There are some pool tables, some other stuff we can do" lolol while the camera was like focusing on girl's butts. :D

Not too much sarging though. You guys should have gamed a little more in the train. The girls seemed to be leaning in, they were interested.

You were the best looking of the 3, you should have tried to escalate some sets in the bar... you buds would have learned something.
 

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daygameguy said:
Your buddy wanted to play chess in a bar? wtf. :kick: "There are some pool tables, some other stuff we can do" lolol while the camera was like focusing on girl's butts. :D

Not too much sarging though. You guys should have gamed a little more in the train. The girls seemed to be leaning in, they were interested.

You were the best looking of the 3, you should have tried to escalate some sets in the bar... you buds would have learned something.
I closed some, not too much of it on camera though. I closed those girls on the train, before we even got on the train. (HB8 named Carol, you don't see her in the video at all)

And yea I'm in the striped shirt.

About the chess, it was so early. After a few hours the alcohol kicked in and the girls were so chill it was awesome. NYC girls tend to be stuck up
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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