"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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We are not F'ing

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Dam i dont know what to do really:( today when this girl came over my house to chill and whatnot we talked about me calling out work on monday so we can chill with each other, so tomorrow ima make up an excuse telling my boss that i need monday off cause i need to take care of some papers.
Now today we ended up making out for the 3rd time or so, we had to go cause we were running late for work so i told her " are we gonna finish this on monday" and she said " we are not fukin' " , i was shocked cause those are my intentions for monday:mad: .

Now while we were in the car we were talking about it and sometimes she'll say that she doesnt know, other times she says no, cause i aint ready ( i did tell her that im a virgin wich is a big lie, and it seems that she believes me cause she keeps telling me that im a virgin and why would i want her to be my first one i think thats part of the problem but anyways) i done suck her breasts in many ocassions already so i dont know what is the problem really.

What should i do to get laid on monday with this girl, cause it seems like she wants to, matterfact i know she wants to but she just doesnt wanna seem as if she is easy.

I need the best tricks in the bag to pull from now until monday at 11:23 am when i pick her up to come over.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you tried everyday for a thousand years to get into a worse mindset, you would struggle.

You're trying to get this ONE girl into bed, you want TRICKS to get her into bed, you LIED to her to even get this far.

I say you tell her the truth like a MAN, and let the chips fall where they may, then read the DJ BIBLE, and start learning how to become a real MAN, not a lying coward who wants to TRICK girls into bed.
 

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man i aint lie i mean she knows dam well that i aint a virgin i just be playing saying that i am, i say that all the time not just to her.
and i dont want tricks i want some tips really
 

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Originally posted by bfl
man i aint lie i mean she knows dam well that i aint a virgin i just be playing saying that i am, i say that all the time not just to her.
and i dont want tricks i want some tips really
My tip to you.

Forget this girl. you've lied to even get this far, she told you she isnt going to sleep with you, she ISNT going to sleep with you.

You need to change your mindset from wanting to simply nail girls, to one where you just make sure that you are totally happy in yourself and everything you do. The women will then flock to you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First off, you shouldn't have given her an open ended question. It give her all the power to choose. Second, you shouldn't have elluded to anything sexual at a later date. Third, sex just happens.

Then, she rejected you by saying that she didn't want to fvck. I would have responded ...


Her: We arn't going to fvck ...
Me: What?
Me: You pervert, not that that's a bad thing. I sort of like that actually.
Me: Let's do lunch ... Say monday about noon ...
 

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the only way you are going to find out if you can have sex with her is if you try to!

I think that if you already are making out with her you can get her..

pick a time when she is most horney (after or just before her rag). what you need to do is turn her on so bad that she goes crazy and jumps you.

You just have to spend the time to turn her on. kiss her neck and chest. Get the bra off and make sure you don't forget to bite those nipples. work on her upper boddy for a while and tease the hell out of her. Avoid kissing her lips until you are ready to have your way with her.

You just need to take control. She will most likely just go with it and not think about it.

She might be mad at you after. but who cares at that point

remember don't listen to what a girls says. judge her on her actions. until she pushes you away from her you are not rejected.
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
the only way you are going to find out if you can have sex with her is if you try to!

I think that if you already are making out with her you can get her..

pick a time when she is most horney (after or just before her rag). what you need to do is turn her on so bad that she goes crazy and jumps you.

You just have to spend the time to turn her on. kiss her neck and chest. Get the bra off and make sure you don't forget to bite those nipples. work on her upper boddy for a while and tease the hell out of her. Avoid kissing her lips until you are ready to have your way with her.

You just need to take control. She will most likely just go with it and not think about it.

She might be mad at you after. but who cares at that point

remember don't listen to what a girls says. judge her on her actions. until she pushes you away from her you are not rejected.
Thats what i was waiting for right there. thread can be closed now. good looking man.
 

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uh... this is just a basic sh!t test.... check out weapons of mass seduction, it breaks it down more... but basically saying something like

"Sex? I'm still trying to decide whether I should hold your hand!"

When she says this she is reassuring herself because around you she thinks of sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by bfl
Thats what i was waiting for right there. thread can be closed now. good looking man.
U haven't laid her yet. :)

I want an update
 

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Chant this mantra:

"Any woman that makes you wait for sex, the sex is never worth the wait."

If you were going to tap this girl she would have been open to you before now.

"We are not fvckin'" is all you needed to hear. After 3 strikes she's out, stick to the rule. She's already broadcasting that you aren't her first priority. Move on to a better prospect who is interested in being intimate with you.
 

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NO.. he should JUST MAKE A MOVE on her and actually try to **** her. that is the problem. she doesn't want to be responsible for having sex with him.

If a girl lets you suck her nipples she will let you fcuk her!

Men shouldn't listen to what women say. JUDGE HER BY HER ACTIONS NOT HER WORDS! This girl is saying, yes to touching and sucking her nipples!. SHE IS A DIRTY HOE! AND SHE IS FULL OF ****! SHE WANTS HIM TO TOUCH HER BUT SHE DOESN'T WANT HIM TO THINK SHE IS A SLUT!

SHE IS A SLUT!
SHE WILL LET HIM FCUK HER!

If he is a man he will make his move and at least try to fcuk her.

The AFC listens to what a women say. that's why they are so confused. Women talk ****.
 

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well actually its supposed to happen monday when i bring her to my house. ill let yall know how it went though
 

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Rule # 1.

Never ask a chickie when are we going to fvck - or are we going to finish this. Keep that sh#t to yourself. Mindset, mindset, mindset.

Don't wine. Don't winny - and stop acting like your desperate to get laid - even if you are.

....

My story.

I went out for ****tails with this one chick. We ended up - several hours later back at my pad on the balcony. The conversation wnet something like this:

Her: Don't think your getting laid tonight
Me: Ok - Whatever - never said I was.
Her: Good - I'm not like that.
Me: Ok.

Several minutes went by and we went back to my room.

Her: Do you have a blanket? I'm sleeping on the couch tonight.
Me: Yeah I've got blankets. I'll clean my teeth then get you a couple.

Anyway... By the time I came back for my bathroom she was undressed and in my bed.

I fvcked her that night - and several times after.

Moral of the story is - what women say and do are two different things.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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womanease: "I don't think you are getting laid tonight"

translation: "I want you to fcuk me, but I don't think you have enough balls to do it"
 

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so that means that... ******** : "we're not fukin"
Translation : ofcourse we're fukin' :)
 

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so that means that... ******** : "we're not fukin"
Translation : of course we're fukin'

LOL exactly.
 

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well tomorrow is the day, i dont know if it was a mistake but i bought her some Gunit shoes that she has been wanting for the longest, im not doing it in an attempt of gettin some booty just cause i bought her the shoes...(well it should help though:) ) but i actually really like her and its just a gift you know, but dont get me wrong, now i better hit it!:D
 

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You bought her shoes?! WTF?! You do not buy girls you haven't got after it with anything!!

You really ought to move here to Nevada; prostitution is legal and will cost you much less if this is your methodology.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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