"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crazy Asian

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You know how girls always say that they want a nice guy?
How they don't want drama and complain that all guys are jerks, even though they are attracted to those guys?

Now Think

You know how we always say that girls don't think/act logically?
and i've always said that i just want a girl that doesn't bull**** around and says what she means.
But i know a few logical and straightforward girls, and all of the are completely unattractive to me.
It's the illogical ones that i'm attracted to.
this girl that is in love with me and that i don't like, is personality wise, my "ideal" girl. but i don't like her
Just like how the "ideal" guy is the nice guy.
We really don't want this, but just the idea of it.

it's the same concept as girls thinking they want a nice guy, but not actually being attracted to them.

what do u guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It is a truism for both sexes..

The main part is that she doesn't fulfill Test 3 which is The Challenge.

If you have no fear of loss and there is certainty.. neither male or female will be attracted.

Your ideal friend is not a Challenge to you.
 

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But i know a few logical and straightforward girls, and all of the are completely unattractive to me.
When you say 'unattractive,' are talking physical, or in general? Are they not as good looking as the other ones, or they just dont do it for you at all?

I've been accused of only going for crazy chicks. I dont believe it, though. They all seemed sane enough when I met them. Plus, they were just the ones I happened to hook with. I didnt pick them. I've been attracted to many sane, normal girls, I have just not been able to hook one.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
You know how girls always say that they want a nice guy?
How they don't want drama and complain that all guys are jerks, even though they are attracted to those guys?

Now Think

You know how we always say that girls don't think/act logically?
and i've always said that i just want a girl that doesn't bull**** around and says what she means.
But i know a few logical and straightforward girls, and all of the are completely unattractive to me.
It's the illogical ones that i'm attracted to.
I think you're confusing "illogical" with "hot" and "logical" with "not attractive."

If a hot girl was logical and straightforward with wanting to have sex, you would drop everything and give up everything for the sex. The reason you don't like logical and straightforward girls is because they are the ones who are usually less attractive or overweight and have trouble convincing guys of having sex.
 
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