"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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papou__

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What if the finale persone u can imagin that lose him....

and he always promis you that nothing gonna take ur place...nothing let him 4get u...

and his the only and the frist persone that 4get all the special moment and leave u in time u live with a lot of pain...and he left you without any reason...

it's my ex...we were special all the people look to me and her and said: wow,,,nice couple...i wish that i found a one like ur bf..or i wish that i have a gf like ur...


Now in 1 second everything is over...i still adore her...but she dnt ask about me...

i just remember her promiss...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RaMar

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your post made very very little sense. If you want us to give you any advice you need to repost use a version of English that the general population can comprehend.
 

idiot_boyfriend

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Originally posted by papou__
What if the finale persone u can imagin that lose him....

and he always promis you that nothing gonna take ur place...nothing let him 4get u...

and his the only and the frist persone that 4get all the special moment and leave u in time u live with a lot of pain...and he left you without any reason...

it's my ex...we were special all the people look to me and her and said: wow,,,nice couple...i wish that i found a one like ur bf..or i wish that i have a gf like ur...


Now in 1 second everything is over...i still adore her...but she dnt ask about me...

i just remember her promiss...
Whoa....take my advice:
Retype this entire thing in real English. I'm all for getting a large batch of foreign DJs, but at least have some communication skills. It's an easy fix: correct the typos and incoherent sentences. Re-post, and then we'll get back to you.


Originally posted by Jerky Boi
Ahh..spelling, punctuation, grammer...
Now I'm just narcing, but you spelled "grammar" incorrectly. :D :D :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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guys look at their country...lebanon...so i can imagine its hard to decipher, but what i basically picked up was that this person and their gf were together, made a promise to each other to stay with each other, she dumped him and hes still remembering her promise.

hes basically pissed and just talking about it...just venting i suppose.

Well thats how i took it

ohiofutballa
 

Vincent

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They have computers in lebanon?
 

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vincent wont u plz be my online friend. u r so cool.
 
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