"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"We all have two lives, the second begins when we realize we only have one."

Genos

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Just saw this quote today, damn it really blew my mind.

This brings me back to an old post I read from SenorFingers, he talked about feeling the Fire of Time, and man it is burning - it never stops. On this short span of time we have on Earth, why would you want to hold yourself back, really? Life is so ephemeral, the moments are fleeting.

Is approaching that hottie in the bookstore really that scary? What have you got to lose? With only a limited time alive, every woman, every person you run into is a chance meeting that is absolutely incredible. I mean, what are the probabilities that you and that HB9 are both in the mystery fiction section in Barnes and Nobles in New york, etc., AT THE SAME TIME? Crazy, huh. Approach her. In general, you should be more afraid of NOT DOING than DOING.

Stop letting regrets about the past hold you back; change what you can, and move forward with the knowledge of how to be better. Live in the present, working towards your goals and ambitions with stoic effort, and there is nothing that can truly disturb your happiness, for you have peace with yourself.

With my parents getting older, I've been feeling the passage of time now. While at college, I lived totally absorbed in myself and didn't really feel the fire of time, but I've noticed it now!

Don't hold yourself back, and put things off ("oh I'll talk to the next girl" ad infinitum); seize your opportunities, enjoy the moments, and that is where you will see improvement and find happiness in progress.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just wanted to bump this so everyone can take a minute to read it. When I first saw something like this a few months ago I changed completely. -*Cute girl walks by* I start a conversation. *People I barely know want to go out* I seize that moment. Don't worry about the turnouts. Just hope for the best and go in, worst case scenario you get a little temporary hurt, better than a lifetime of regret.
 
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