We all have that one friend who...

[playa99]

I'm using this post to affirm what I've realised to be one of the key components of the mythical 'don juan'

In my teens I had a mate who was debt ridden, no prospects, very gangly, hygiene was sometimes questionable, regularly took drugs etc etc, you should be getting the picture by now.

By the time we were 20 he had banged over 70 girls, mad, right?

THE METHOD IN THE MADNESS.

DON'T GIVE A FVCK.

This guy would be messaging so many girls at once it was unbelievable. These girls all knew he was about one thing and one thing only.. yet they would either sleep with him no strings attached... or try and get him to change into who they thought they could make him. He did not give a Fvck at all about what he said, he would insult some of them, tell some of them he was going to fvck them. He was completely comfortable being him.. despite all of his flaws.

He also knew EVERYONE and had high social value wherever he went, this mix got him so many chicks it was unbelievable!

Now some of the girls weren't the greatest but I see a lot of guys here who are SCARED of saying what they think, or think about every text they send.

BY THE TIME YOU'VE COME ON HERE AND POSTED ABOUT A TEXT EXCHANGE YOU'VE ALREADY LOST.

I've stopped giving a fvck again recently and I'm doing whats best for me..

I have my tea on the table every night and all my clothes washed and ironed. If I have a problem with someone i'll tell them.

WHEN I SAY DONT GIVE A FVCK I DONT MEAN BE A D!CK

Go for what you want to go for but keep your morals. Don't think you've got to win every battle cause your an aspiring DJ, but make steps forward every time working towards the key of...

BEING COMFORTABLE WITH YOURSELF.

 

[RangerMIke]

Spot on. You have to completely free yourself from results otherwise you are a slave to the emotional whims of women... who often have no real idea of why they behave as they do.

 

[sylvester the cat]

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[Heisenburger]

Spot on. You have to completely free yourself from results otherwise you are a slave to the emotional whims of women... who often have no real idea of why they behave as they do.

Great comment.

 

[Yewki]

BY THE TIME YOU'VE COME ON HERE AND POSTED ABOUT A TEXT EXCHANGE YOU'VE ALREADY LOST.

Yes, the sad reality is most everyone who posts here for help about a girl has already lost. Even if they've hooked up with her and think everything is fine. They lost. They lost because they're too concerned about "losing", if that makes sense. Worrying about a girl enough to write about it in most cases means... you care way more than you should. The problem though is a lot of peope don't actually realize this. It's like being on a sinking ship, running to the side that is still above water, and believing everything is fine. No, your ship still has holes in it.

 

[JohnChops]

CAN THIS THREAD BE STICKIED? Spot on to everyone in this thread. Not giving a fvck is not only freeing you from an outward locus of control and thinking, but it makes you more relaxed and comfortable with yourself in social settings.