"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm using this post to affirm what I've realised to be one of the key components of the mythical 'don juan'

In my teens I had a mate who was debt ridden, no prospects, very gangly, hygiene was sometimes questionable, regularly took drugs etc etc, you should be getting the picture by now.

By the time we were 20 he had banged over 70 girls, mad, right?

THE METHOD IN THE MADNESS.

DON'T GIVE A FVCK.

This guy would be messaging so many girls at once it was unbelievable. These girls all knew he was about one thing and one thing only.. yet they would either sleep with him no strings attached... or try and get him to change into who they thought they could make him. He did not give a Fvck at all about what he said, he would insult some of them, tell some of them he was going to fvck them. He was completely comfortable being him.. despite all of his flaws.

He also knew EVERYONE and had high social value wherever he went, this mix got him so many chicks it was unbelievable!

Now some of the girls weren't the greatest but I see a lot of guys here who are SCARED of saying what they think, or think about every text they send.

BY THE TIME YOU'VE COME ON HERE AND POSTED ABOUT A TEXT EXCHANGE YOU'VE ALREADY LOST.

I've stopped giving a fvck again recently and I'm doing whats best for me..

I have my tea on the table every night and all my clothes washed and ironed. If I have a problem with someone i'll tell them.

WHEN I SAY DONT GIVE A FVCK I DONT MEAN BE A D!CK

Go for what you want to go for but keep your morals. Don't think you've got to win every battle cause your an aspiring DJ, but make steps forward every time working towards the key of...

BEING COMFORTABLE WITH YOURSELF.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Spot on. You have to completely free yourself from results otherwise you are a slave to the emotional whims of women... who often have no real idea of why they behave as they do.
 
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RangerMIke said:
Spot on. You have to completely free yourself from results otherwise you are a slave to the emotional whims of women... who often have no real idea of why they behave as they do.
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Great comment.
 
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playa99 said:
BY THE TIME YOU'VE COME ON HERE AND POSTED ABOUT A TEXT EXCHANGE YOU'VE ALREADY LOST.
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Yes, the sad reality is most everyone who posts here for help about a girl has already lost. Even if they've hooked up with her and think everything is fine. They lost. They lost because they're too concerned about "losing", if that makes sense. Worrying about a girl enough to write about it in most cases means... you care way more than you should. The problem though is a lot of peope don't actually realize this. It's like being on a sinking ship, running to the side that is still above water, and believing everything is fine. No, your ship still has holes in it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CAN THIS THREAD BE STICKIED? Spot on to everyone in this thread. Not giving a fvck is not only freeing you from an outward locus of control and thinking, but it makes you more relaxed and comfortable with yourself in social settings.
 
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