"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
We alays do what you want to do...
- Thread starter grayclif
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If they say yes like 1000 years you can have fun with it. Say ... cool, if you've been doing something for 1000 years I can make some money selling you to a Museum
However because all women are opportunist always on the lookout for a better deal they love having options. So if they disagree with a plan I always have a fallback option.
Just frame it as well I'd like to go see the blAh. So basically you've got two things you want to do. If she doesn't like that say no worries we'll catch up another time.
If she doesn't like the plan and then whinges later tell her she's an adult she's allowed to speak up. Unfortunately modern Society teaches women that they don't have to moderate their moods. There will always be a beta male nearby to eat up all the crap she can dish. Now she wouldn't be saying that sort of thing to a boss would she.