"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
We alays do what you want to do...
- Thread starter grayclif
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
If they say yes like 1000 years you can have fun with it. Say ... cool, if you've been doing something for 1000 years I can make some money selling you to a Museum
However because all women are opportunist always on the lookout for a better deal they love having options. So if they disagree with a plan I always have a fallback option.
Just frame it as well I'd like to go see the blAh. So basically you've got two things you want to do. If she doesn't like that say no worries we'll catch up another time.
If she doesn't like the plan and then whinges later tell her she's an adult she's allowed to speak up. Unfortunately modern Society teaches women that they don't have to moderate their moods. There will always be a beta male nearby to eat up all the crap she can dish. Now she wouldn't be saying that sort of thing to a boss would she.