"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ways you have met your girlfriend/friend.

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Think of this as a survey.

How did you meet your girlfriend/friend?

Example:

Through a friend.

Give it a go guys... maybe it will help me keep hope up in finding a girl myself. I seem to be finding the wrong girls... and the girls I want, I don't ever meet. (The girl I want: Not a slut).

Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she waved at me in class one day and i waved back :p

Then she asked me about homework or some BS and we have been GF/Bf ever since but we arent together anymore :(
 
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Through work...

Best time to meet a GF would be in on the daytime... you get ppl for what they are rather than in the environment that is the club or bar where you don't really know what you're gettin.. hence the classroom is an ideal place for pickin up girl cos you immediately got somethin in common...

The reason why most people fail is that they don't have the balls to approach in the day.. say that girl in front of them in the library queue, that girl handin out leaflets on campus, or girl across the way in your class who you know would look good on your arm... people miss so many great opportunities...
 
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The only LTR's I've met are at places I hang out regularly.

The community swimming pool.

The gym.

The coffee shop.

The Park


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Bars...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd love to meet someone good during the day but when I see somebody I like I find it very very hard to approach as it's way easier to approach girls in clubs/bars although there's alcohol and sluts there so it's definately not the best place to find an LTR.

I do still believe that you can meet decent girls in bars/clubs because all the girls I know all go to bars/clubbing and some of them are real nice (not my type lol) but it just goes to show that not all girls are sluts that go there...
 
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coffee shop.

yoga class (The amount of hot women at my local yoga studio is insane (25 - 40 crowd)). Plus, the ratio of men/women is very favorable.
 
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Fan, a female friend asked me to go to a Yoga class. I declined. Should I accept? I have this fear of looking like a complete uncoordinated dufus...
 
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After a rugby world cup game i was out at a club with some mates. Saw a friend from school, had a chat and found out he was engaged/busted his knee.... other stuff like that.
So i decided to play one of the games i used to do to my mates, i do the whole club thing where u talk to every girl in sight but i would then get them to go up to my mate and say some random phrase.
It is good fun, basically i saw this chicky checking me out, went over and decided i wanted her for my self. With her ever since.
Cheers
 
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i met my girl at a school dance.

It is a great place to meet women during high school because of the fact when slow dancing comes on. You get to use kino on the lady. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Reto
Fan, a female friend asked me to go to a Yoga class. I declined. Should I accept? I have this fear of looking like a complete uncoordinated dufus...
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Go to the class. You will be no more uncoordinated than the other newbies.
 
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1 - Through a friend who literally played matchmaker: his intention was for us to hook up from the start, and it happened.

2 - She saw me, found me hot, added me on MSN. Chatted, got her #, asked on a date. Rest is history.

3 - Through another friend.

4 - Through a friend on MSN, but I was talking to her for a long time before actually asking for her number, because my friend wanted her. I was just establishing rapport in the first couple of months and didn't give a $hit if anything happened, but now I'm glad I'm in a relationship with this girl.

Moral of my stories: don't hope for too much, take life as it is. When there's an opportunity, approach, but don't fantasize about making the woman your wife and having 14 kids and a condo when you haven't even been on a date yet. Grab your balls and be always on the offensive, never let an opportunity pass you by.
 
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