Ways to show a girl you're not afraid to walk away

[ebracer05]

The title pretty much says it all

What are some tangible things you can do or say that will demonstrate to a girl you're not afraid to walk away, particularly if she's giving you crap?

Preemptively dumping her?
Telling her outright she's walking on thin ice with you?

Do you go direct, or do you be more subtle?

 

[pdx1138]

1. Ignoring all texts/calls and not returning them in a timely manor.

2. If she suggests a time to hang out or dinner or something you decline with "I'm Busy."
with out a counter-offer.

 

[btownbuck2012]

tell her straight up i don't appreciate her bullshi t and IF she keeps it up she can go fu ck herself. And, yes, I've said all of that, word for word, before.

 

[konmai]

Just walk away. Talk is cheap.

 

[Jariel]

Just walk away. Talk is cheap.

Exactly!

If she's kicking up drama or disrespecting you, then you simply say nothing. But the title of this thread implies that you can't actually do it and you just want to bluff.

 

[shizz702]

Good topic.

Looking forward to more input.

I agree, believe it and live by it. Ignoring and being aloof makes good as well.

Have your dealbreakers. When the elicit behavior you deem unacceptable, WALK simple as that. If the give a sh!t about you they will come crawling back, if not, a problem is solved and you cut a loss that wasn't needed anyway.

 

[JD57]

There's a difference between the purpose of demonstrate your willingness to walk away (maintaining the frame that you're busy, a challenge, non-needy and picky) and actually walking away (she's crossed the line and you're done with her).
So demonstrating that ability, aside from actually doing it, is important. Some interesting suggestions in here.

 

[spartanfan]

I would instantly just tell her we are "done" and walk away or hang up the phone. Heck I have even texted this before to someone yea I know that's pretty low but it worked. The next day I would be with someone else and I wouldn't pay her a single glance if I saw her again haha.

All of the previously said issues are great as well like ignoring texts, phone calls and even deleting her from my Facebook page would give her the hint as well if she was seriously disrespecting me as well.

This is very difficult to do but if you put a lot trust in your decision it will be worth it in the end. The hardest part is making the girl actually believe all of this isn't a ruse....

 

[shizz702]

Yea and let's not forget the old facebook delete! Petty, stupid, and means nothing to us DJs but oh do the ladies take it seriously!

 

[vatoloco]

Spin multiple plates and you will naturally NOT give a fuck.

 

[loveshogun]

The title pretty much says it all

What are some tangible things you can do or say that will demonstrate to a girl you're not afraid to walk away, particularly if she's giving you crap?

Preemptively dumping her?
Telling her outright she's walking on thin ice with you?

Do you go direct, or do you be more subtle?

The answer is in the title: walk away.

Think about it. If you ever get into a situation with a woman (especially early on) where she's "testing" you or being such a straight up b*tch where you have to contemplate walking away, why would you stop yourself and think "hmmm... how can I show her I'm not afraid to walk away?"

What situation, exactly, would warrant this display of force, but not warrant you actually walking away?

I can't think of a single one.

So... walk away.

 

[bigneil]

Text her "Fvck off."

If she likes you she will reply at least 3 times.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

The title pretty much says it all

What are some tangible things you can do or say that will demonstrate to a girl you're not afraid to walk away, particularly if she's giving you crap?

Preemptively dumping her?
Telling her outright she's walking on thin ice with you?

Do you go direct, or do you be more subtle?

You 'show' her by disappearing. No texts, replies, emails, calls or seeing her. Simple.

 

[emugarian]

The title pretty much says it all

What are some tangible things you can do or say that will demonstrate to a girl you're not afraid to walk away, particularly if she's giving you crap?

Preemptively dumping her?
Telling her outright she's walking on thin ice with you?

Do you go direct, or do you be more subtle?

Just simply back off. Be indifferent, and if you want to hang out, make it on your terms, not hers.. If she is not displaying affection and romance, be direct and tell her your needs are not being met, and cut her loose.

 

[CMNILS87]

I would instantly just tell her we are "done" and walk away or hang up the phone. Heck I have even texted this before to someone yea I know that's pretty low but it worked. The next day I would be with someone else and I wouldn't pay her a single glance if I saw her again haha.

All of the previously said issues are great as well like ignoring texts, phone calls and even deleting her from my Facebook page would give her the hint as well if she was seriously disrespecting me as well.

This is very difficult to do but if you put a lot trust in your decision it will be worth it in the end. The hardest part is making the girl actually believe all of this isn't a ruse....

Why do you think it's low to break it off with someone through text? Honestly I think it's one of the best ways. Most women will call that cowardice.. You know why? Because they can't confront you, cause an argument, and try to get their 2 cents in. Face to face break ups are for women to get piece of mind. If I'm a guy and I'm not feeling it or never want to see you again, I'm not going to take time out of my busy day to track you down, say it's over, and watch waterworks for 30 minutes

 

[Poon King]

You don't need to show her sh!t. Just know that you WILL walk away if you need to. Simple.

Also.. you should be spinning plates. Analyzing individual women is a sign of either oneitis or only having one option.

 

[guru1000]

You don't need to show her sh!t. Just know that you WILL walk away if you need to. Simple.

Exactly. When you feel like showing anything to another, you are elevating that person above you, by placing significance in how they view you. You "show" only contrivances that advance your aim, not to win others' approval.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Laugh at her stupid **** and show her where the door is. If she doesn't like the way you do things she can fvck off.
An example: I spend a lot of time working and not much keeping my house spotless. One of the girls I am seeing made a comment. I told her that I wasn't making her stay and she could leave any time she wanted. I also said if she couldn't handle she didn't need to come back either.

She stayed, and there were no more comments.

When you make it clear that you are not invested and that you can walk away any time you want (because you can), there will be less crap to deal with.

 

[Dynamited]

Dude, when you walk away you go NC.

By walking away you are telling her that it's over for good.

There's a good reason why you did so in the first place.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

OP posted this thing like 4 years ago and hasn't been on here in like 2 years guys.....