"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ways to psych yourself up

smq650

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I wonder if this works. If you're at a department store, about to walk up to some chick and ask her out, how can you psych yourself up?

Heh maybe you can bring your iPod and like listen to Rocky's "Eye of the Tiger" or Van Halen's "Jump" right before you walk up! That way it will feel like you're just acting in a movie. Even better would be if you could keep the headphones on while you're talking to her, and just play the music at a lower volume. Bwhahaha....

YOU MUST FIGHT JUST TO KEEP THEM ALIIIIIIIIVEEEEE.....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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or you can wear some crotchless leather pants with no draws
 

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I know this number, it's great for some practical stimulation of the 3 sec rule.

Wilson Pickett - Land of 1000 dances
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sh*t dearsappho, i think U've just took my life and distilled it to its essence...

Never trust a man in Spandex®

You must be fricken rich or smthing....genius...genius....
 
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