Alright, I've got a good thing going for me now, I'm good looking, funny, well liked by most everyone in the school, and I've got a good social circle. However, I'm still having problems letting girls know I like them and projecting a sexy and flirtacious image, and on the side having small problems with confidence (which will probably pass on its own). At the same time, I'm so lazy its really killing my game and my school life (barely devote any time to homework, put off working out until I just straight up don't do it), I'm looking for ways (homemade and non-homemade) to get my testosterone up and actually BE a man! Any suggestions?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ways to get your testoserone up - help
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LostAndConfused
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Your body naturally produces testosterone, are you trying to cause your body to make more or are you trying to find an alternate way to get more testosterone?
The problem probably isn't testosterone man.
The problem probably isn't testosterone man.
TonyWongButOhSoRite
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I love it when people make posts about how to get more testosterone. Dude just get up and do some home work or whatever. Seriously this is one of the lamest posts Ive ever seen. You want more testosterone so you can do your homework. Just go and do it and shut up. If you are lazy to the point where you feel fatigue and complelty fcuked up all the time then go see a doctor but if you're just lazy then stop being lazy and makeing excuses and just do it. Excrise does help though but you stoping being a lazy gimp would help a lot more.
LostAndConfused
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Testosterone is a sex hormone, it probably doesn't affect concentration (and if it does, in a negative way). If you got A.D.D or something you need a downer like ritalin to calm you to focus better.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maxtro
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If you think you are low in testosterone then you should get tested. You can google home testosterone test. I have thought that I may have low testosterone because I don't have lots of energy and my mood is normally below neutral. I haven't bothered to get tested though.
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Maybe you have mono? And even if you're not good with girls, you can still get it.
Make sure you get enough sleep. Teenagers and young adults need a bit more sleep than adults to function at their peak. I think it's about 9-10 hours. This ought to help you feel more energetic and outgoing.
Flirting with girls isn't hard. Just rag on 'em like you would your buddies. Not about anything really personal though, but like if they wear those huge sunglasses that so many hot girls do these days, let 'em know they look silly. Just bust her balls a little. If done correctly with a sarcastic/witty confidence they should blush or hit you playfully or something.
Sorry, going off on a tangent here. You say your problem is confidence? Aside from getting enough sleep, you need to work on changing your internal dialogue. You deserve the best life you can dream for yourself. Start acting like it. Carry yourself in the proud manner that a man of your virtue should. Exercise helps a lot with this. So mainly, just get off your ass and do something. Being lazy sounds like your main problem if your situation is as you describe it. If you want to complain, it'd better be about girls not leaving you alone.
Make sure you get enough sleep. Teenagers and young adults need a bit more sleep than adults to function at their peak. I think it's about 9-10 hours. This ought to help you feel more energetic and outgoing.
Flirting with girls isn't hard. Just rag on 'em like you would your buddies. Not about anything really personal though, but like if they wear those huge sunglasses that so many hot girls do these days, let 'em know they look silly. Just bust her balls a little. If done correctly with a sarcastic/witty confidence they should blush or hit you playfully or something.
Sorry, going off on a tangent here. You say your problem is confidence? Aside from getting enough sleep, you need to work on changing your internal dialogue. You deserve the best life you can dream for yourself. Start acting like it. Carry yourself in the proud manner that a man of your virtue should. Exercise helps a lot with this. So mainly, just get off your ass and do something. Being lazy sounds like your main problem if your situation is as you describe it. If you want to complain, it'd better be about girls not leaving you alone.