Alright, I've got a good thing going for me now, I'm good looking, funny, well liked by most everyone in the school, and I've got a good social circle. However, I'm still having problems letting girls know I like them and projecting a sexy and flirtacious image, and on the side having small problems with confidence (which will probably pass on its own). At the same time, I'm so lazy its really killing my game and my school life (barely devote any time to homework, put off working out until I just straight up don't do it), I'm looking for ways (homemade and non-homemade) to get my testosterone up and actually BE a man! Any suggestions?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Ways to get your testoserone up - help
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LostAndConfused
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Your body naturally produces testosterone, are you trying to cause your body to make more or are you trying to find an alternate way to get more testosterone?
The problem probably isn't testosterone man.
The problem probably isn't testosterone man.
TonyWongButOhSoRite
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I love it when people make posts about how to get more testosterone. Dude just get up and do some home work or whatever. Seriously this is one of the lamest posts Ive ever seen. You want more testosterone so you can do your homework. Just go and do it and shut up. If you are lazy to the point where you feel fatigue and complelty fcuked up all the time then go see a doctor but if you're just lazy then stop being lazy and makeing excuses and just do it. Excrise does help though but you stoping being a lazy gimp would help a lot more.
LostAndConfused
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Testosterone is a sex hormone, it probably doesn't affect concentration (and if it does, in a negative way). If you got A.D.D or something you need a downer like ritalin to calm you to focus better.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Maxtro
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If you think you are low in testosterone then you should get tested. You can google home testosterone test. I have thought that I may have low testosterone because I don't have lots of energy and my mood is normally below neutral. I haven't bothered to get tested though.
MooseGod
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Maybe you have mono? And even if you're not good with girls, you can still get it.
Make sure you get enough sleep. Teenagers and young adults need a bit more sleep than adults to function at their peak. I think it's about 9-10 hours. This ought to help you feel more energetic and outgoing.
Flirting with girls isn't hard. Just rag on 'em like you would your buddies. Not about anything really personal though, but like if they wear those huge sunglasses that so many hot girls do these days, let 'em know they look silly. Just bust her balls a little. If done correctly with a sarcastic/witty confidence they should blush or hit you playfully or something.
Sorry, going off on a tangent here. You say your problem is confidence? Aside from getting enough sleep, you need to work on changing your internal dialogue. You deserve the best life you can dream for yourself. Start acting like it. Carry yourself in the proud manner that a man of your virtue should. Exercise helps a lot with this. So mainly, just get off your ass and do something. Being lazy sounds like your main problem if your situation is as you describe it. If you want to complain, it'd better be about girls not leaving you alone.
Make sure you get enough sleep. Teenagers and young adults need a bit more sleep than adults to function at their peak. I think it's about 9-10 hours. This ought to help you feel more energetic and outgoing.
Flirting with girls isn't hard. Just rag on 'em like you would your buddies. Not about anything really personal though, but like if they wear those huge sunglasses that so many hot girls do these days, let 'em know they look silly. Just bust her balls a little. If done correctly with a sarcastic/witty confidence they should blush or hit you playfully or something.
Sorry, going off on a tangent here. You say your problem is confidence? Aside from getting enough sleep, you need to work on changing your internal dialogue. You deserve the best life you can dream for yourself. Start acting like it. Carry yourself in the proud manner that a man of your virtue should. Exercise helps a lot with this. So mainly, just get off your ass and do something. Being lazy sounds like your main problem if your situation is as you describe it. If you want to complain, it'd better be about girls not leaving you alone.