She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I would but their is no other girls in my class.Originally posted by whyshy
Get her jealous by talking to other, uglier girls. So she knows she is better than them.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I do that. I can't do "Keep Away" because of that. She iniates convo's and does all that stuff all period. Then on Thursday she sat 1 seat away but then said "She didn't like the smell of black people" so from now on she sits next to me. I keep her laughing the whole period. I was reading her myspace I think on saturday and one of the comments she left was I want this guy at work so I'll quit after I get him. So I'm obviously not on her mind after school so I need to find a way for her to think about me after school. I plan on asking her out on Thursday.Originally posted by DJ4Real
You can try to give her a little attention. Also, be sure to stand out by saying things that are funny so that you'll stand out over the other guys.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It's a good way to get her greed to shine out. Wait until she has you and we'll see how much longer she wants to keep you.Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Its a good way to get the girl.
Anytime you do something to "stand out," it's basically class clown behavior. Yes, they're different, but there is a very fine line. I can't think of a single instance where someone did it for any reason other than to get attention... but then again, why am I arguing? lol, if it gets attention, I guess it helps with women. Be a clown if you must.Originally posted by DJ4Real
It's not a matter of "entertaining the class for her" or "being a class clown". It's to stand out a little bit more than the other guys....if you'd read...she is like the only girl in his class. There is a difference in being able to make witty and intelligent remarks, and being a "class clown" they are different.
Bad straegy my friend.Originally posted by DJ4Real
I would prefer women who are just as good looking or better than her so she'll think "what have they got that I don't got"
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
:crackup: :crackup:!Originally posted by whyshy
you look for what's inside of a girl and not just the outer beauty.