You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I would but their is no other girls in my class.Originally posted by whyshy
Get her jealous by talking to other, uglier girls. So she knows she is better than them.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I do that. I can't do "Keep Away" because of that. She iniates convo's and does all that stuff all period. Then on Thursday she sat 1 seat away but then said "She didn't like the smell of black people" so from now on she sits next to me. I keep her laughing the whole period. I was reading her myspace I think on saturday and one of the comments she left was I want this guy at work so I'll quit after I get him. So I'm obviously not on her mind after school so I need to find a way for her to think about me after school. I plan on asking her out on Thursday.Originally posted by DJ4Real
You can try to give her a little attention. Also, be sure to stand out by saying things that are funny so that you'll stand out over the other guys.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It's a good way to get her greed to shine out. Wait until she has you and we'll see how much longer she wants to keep you.Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Its a good way to get the girl.
Anytime you do something to "stand out," it's basically class clown behavior. Yes, they're different, but there is a very fine line. I can't think of a single instance where someone did it for any reason other than to get attention... but then again, why am I arguing? lol, if it gets attention, I guess it helps with women. Be a clown if you must.Originally posted by DJ4Real
It's not a matter of "entertaining the class for her" or "being a class clown". It's to stand out a little bit more than the other guys....if you'd read...she is like the only girl in his class. There is a difference in being able to make witty and intelligent remarks, and being a "class clown" they are different.
Bad straegy my friend.Originally posted by DJ4Real
I would prefer women who are just as good looking or better than her so she'll think "what have they got that I don't got"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
:crackup: :crackup:!Originally posted by whyshy
you look for what's inside of a girl and not just the outer beauty.