"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Way underated tip

wutang23

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Ive often noticed on this board people bashing the "3 s rule" (This rule referring to approaching a girl you found attractive In the first 3 seconds of you see, make eye contact with her, by doing this you don't let yourself psyche you out get nervous hesitate etc.) I could often carry a conversation with a girl be ****y and funny kino her, I knew how to converse with girls fine yet often times I'd goto a party and just sip beers with my friends and not approach any hbs. I would tell myself things like well an hour has passed now it would be weird to approach any girls since I've been sitting here all this time. I WOULD analyze and think way too much before approaching a girl, analyze to the point where I would just never approach. On my 17th birthday my best friend who is a natural DJ told me about the 3s rule and took me to a party. Before we went In he said I'm going to watch you tonight and if you don't use the 3s rule I'm going to fight you dead serious. Walked into the party used 3s rule immediately instead of sitting around analyzing whether or not to approach, I just saw a girl i was interested in and approached before 3s was up just said hi or anything that came to mind. LOST MY VIRGINITY THAT NIGHT, girls at that party were so turned on by the quick non hesitant approach. Now 18 I live by this rule and I have gotten 10 times as much action as I had gotten before. Before my 17th birthday I had been to this site learned alot about "being myself" seduction techniques ****y funny all very useful information, but guess what with all that knowledge I NEVER PUT MYSELF INTO THE RING, never gave myself a chance to use all I had learned based on pure hesitation, 3s rule got rid of all of that hesitation and analyzing I just learned to act for what I want. So the next time someone says the 3s rule is crap it will never help an afc, thats bull becuz it sure helped me. Hope this helps someone
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wutang23

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The rule is so great for this reason. Often times when it comes to getting girls, our minds are our worst enemy they prevent us from the most important thing to getting girls ACTING. 3s rule silences the mind, and puts action at the forefront
 

ARrocket

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Yeah, I think it's great, especially for the shy type....and the type that likes to over-analyze lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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