Ive often noticed on this board people bashing the "3 s rule" (This rule referring to approaching a girl you found attractive In the first 3 seconds of you see, make eye contact with her, by doing this you don't let yourself psyche you out get nervous hesitate etc.) I could often carry a conversation with a girl be ****y and funny kino her, I knew how to converse with girls fine yet often times I'd goto a party and just sip beers with my friends and not approach any hbs. I would tell myself things like well an hour has passed now it would be weird to approach any girls since I've been sitting here all this time. I WOULD analyze and think way too much before approaching a girl, analyze to the point where I would just never approach. On my 17th birthday my best friend who is a natural DJ told me about the 3s rule and took me to a party. Before we went In he said I'm going to watch you tonight and if you don't use the 3s rule I'm going to fight you dead serious. Walked into the party used 3s rule immediately instead of sitting around analyzing whether or not to approach, I just saw a girl i was interested in and approached before 3s was up just said hi or anything that came to mind. LOST MY VIRGINITY THAT NIGHT, girls at that party were so turned on by the quick non hesitant approach. Now 18 I live by this rule and I have gotten 10 times as much action as I had gotten before. Before my 17th birthday I had been to this site learned alot about "being myself" seduction techniques ****y funny all very useful information, but guess what with all that knowledge I NEVER PUT MYSELF INTO THE RING, never gave myself a chance to use all I had learned based on pure hesitation, 3s rule got rid of all of that hesitation and analyzing I just learned to act for what I want. So the next time someone says the 3s rule is crap it will never help an afc, thats bull becuz it sure helped me. Hope this helps someone
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Way underated tip
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