"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Way too skinny...need help

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Hey guys
So start out im around 1,75cm and wight something like 60kgs thing is im damn skinny.Need some advice on that.
Also i do a small and simple workout of 40push ups(2 sets)60 abs(2 sets)and 30 squats(also 2 sets)and when possible i go out and run sometimes for 1hour(my house is cursed with a terribly bad running route so i cant do better than that). I cant hit the gym(no money and usually no time)but i believe i can get more body mass at home perhaps changing my diet.Any tips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you really can't afford a gym, check this out:

http://www.rosstraining.com/

Diet should be something like:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134782

Getting 1.5-2g of protein per pound of bw.

Stuff like sandbags, wheelbarrows, sledgehammers are probably what you want to look at. You can make a sled really easily and get sand/stones (very cheap), that would probably work well. But check out the above, there should be a lot of options.

Good luck,

Quagmire
 

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holy crap express service by Quag :cheer: ty for the reply but i got some questions
1-Whats a shake?
2-How the hell can i take those 6 meals everyday?eg: at mondays i leave home at 7:30am and only get back at 21:00pm.that leaves me time for homework a shower dinner and thats it
3-Raw eggs?not getting it...im suposed to like drink the egg?:crazy:
 

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1.Shakes differ. When I started out I would have two scoops of whey+4 raw eggs+a little water. There are shakes that have carbs with oats or whatever but I haven't ever done that. It will depend on weight/goals.

2.If you are REALLY tight for time start off on five meals a day and see how you get on. You are going to have to persevere if you want to see gains. When I was at school I would take a raw egg shake + meat laden sandwiches. It really isn't hard. I started a job the other day and I am taking the sandwiches+two shakes. You just have them on breaks or whatever. I see guys complaining about this all the time, I really don't see the problem. Take the stuff with you in a bag for christs sake.

3.Yes, see the recipe above. You put it in a container and blend it together.
 

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Gonna get all that diet food tomorrow and do a slight tweak on my workout to make it better. It will take some time to get used to all those shakes but screw it.no pain no gain.
once again ty for replies Quag:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The shakes taste good...get the ON 100% gold standard whey and try a flavor of your choice.

also...do what quag said but also lose the hard running...low intensity is fine. Your just losing more mass on a improper diet
 

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I-tallionStallion said:
The shakes taste good...get the ON 100% gold standard whey and try a flavor of your choice.

also...do what quag said but also lose the hard running...low intensity is fine. Your just losing more mass on a improper diet
ill try to cut down the running a little but i just like running its so nice...when im happy i run when im sad i run when i got nothing to do i run...we could say that im running for my life:crackup:
 

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Squats, deads, chins, dips, bench, shoulder press, and lotsa core... Train 3, max 4 times per week to give your body maximal ability to recover. Run on off days, max 2-3 per week.

3500 cals/day with 200 g protein divided up into 5-6 meals.
 

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Punisha said:
ill try to cut down the running a little but i just like running its so nice...when im happy i run when im sad i run when i got nothing to do i run...we could say that im running for my life:crackup:
You won't need any running with the above training.
 

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if you enjoy running, by all means run. but realize that it's counterproductive to your other state goals.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you wanna gain some muscle, keep it to twice a week, jogging, have some sugar (fast release carb) before and after. Less or equal to 30 minutes.

The main problems are, you don't wanna 1) lose calories and therefore lose mass and 2) f*ck up your body's recovery from weight training. Running ain't gonna do anything for your CNS.

Start stuffing the protein and calories down (200g+++, 3000++ calories) and get yo' ass under the barbell ;)
 

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Well if i dont cut the running should i take more proteins or something?
i really like running and i dont wanna cut it
 

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ok. full stop. what are your goals here? what are you willing to sacrifice and what are you not willing to sacrifice? if you're skinny, you need to eat more, it's not much more complicated than that.
 

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Throttle said:
ok. full stop. what are your goals here? what are you willing to sacrifice and what are you not willing to sacrifice? if you're skinny, you need to eat more, it's not much more complicated than that.
not willing to sacrifice things i do for pleasure(running) and shouldnt it be ''smart''eating?cause i already eat a lot im like biting something every 2-3 hours
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Punisha said:
not willing to sacrifice things i do for pleasure(running) and shouldnt it be ''smart''eating?cause i already eat a lot im like biting something every 2-3 hours
For skinny guys, smart eating is only: Heaps of calories and protein. The way I judge the amount is to make sure I always feel so full that if i ate anymore id be sick.
 

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Punisha said:
and shouldnt it be ''smart''eating?cause i already eat a lot im like biting something every 2-3 hours
clearly you are a genius. you will always find a way to talk yourself out of what needs to be done to meet your goals, rather than be explicit about those goals and head towards them.
 

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Biting food is different then EATING to grow. I see people bite beef jerky sticks at work every 2hrs and eat some pringles, and that is NOT eating.
 

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You won't get huge from martial arts, but if you eat heaps you will fill out a little. Most people get a slightly bigger back/arms/arse in the first 3 months of training muay thai then their body gets used to it and they stop growing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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