"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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way distant family..

Grover_mister

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a guy i know named zach has a problem and i told him i would help.


well he met this girl who is pretty good looking. they flirted back and forth as he says but they came to find somtin out thats not good.


this girl is like his 3rd or 4th cousin.

now where i live u can marry ur 3rd cousin and beyond.

but here is the problem he doesnt know how to come about it lol..

so what should we tell this poor sap
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stacks Of Terror

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If this friend is really you we won't judge.Shes basically not related to him then.
It shouldn't matter.
 

LordGrin

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yea, i really wudn't even count a 3rd cuzin as a cusin anyways
man thats like ur grandparent's cuzin's descendence!
 
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