"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jesusrules

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shet alright im starting to have a problem sometimes I wake up in the morning and my eyes get really watery. I dont even know why, me and my mom have the say problem so I guess its genetics. I will then have watery eyes for the whole day. Anyways when this happens I feel as if I cant talk to girls cause im afraid I will look dumb to them. So this makes me feel low and I hate it. So im wondering is anyone else like this too? also should I try to ignore it and still keep trying to DJ? please help me guys. whats should I do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Before I go to sleep at night my eyes sometimes water, I think its just a case of genetics or too much sun or a case of you getting older and eyes weaker?

Not 100% sure, see doctor.
 

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jesusrules said:
also should I try to ignore it and still keep trying to DJ? please help me guys. whats should I do?
NO! Youy should quit now! Watery eyes will mess your game. Accpet it and DIE!

If your gonna let watery eyes stop you from gaming. Than your probably gonna let alot of other things stop you from picking up girls.

I think you already know what the answer to your question is. Don't let watery eyes stop you, unless you want them to.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes, vette has a good point. Let me expand it: wattery eyes are excuse for anxiety to approach women. If you trully had a disorder, and you trully wanted to approach a woman, you would approach her with realization that you have a disorder and it is YOU. You have axiety and it is subconscious, and it is not just about women.


I too had watery eyes. Especially in the winter when it's cold and windy. I started working out (running, lifting) and working on myself by improving my game. I became a number 1, every body else are now number 2, I could care less for their opinions. In other words, I've now closer to the ideal of myself. My watery eye problem is gone. Apperantely, it was a problem with my nerves that made me stress too much and think too much while doing stupid things such as walking on the street, or checking a girl out.

What you should get from this is that you need to start working on yourself, concentrate on improving your physique, your game, anything that you need improvement on. You should be your number 1 priority, girls are 2nd. Your mom is 2nd, anybody else is 2nd.
 
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