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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jesusrules

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shet alright im starting to have a problem sometimes I wake up in the morning and my eyes get really watery. I dont even know why, me and my mom have the say problem so I guess its genetics. I will then have watery eyes for the whole day. Anyways when this happens I feel as if I cant talk to girls cause im afraid I will look dumb to them. So this makes me feel low and I hate it. So im wondering is anyone else like this too? also should I try to ignore it and still keep trying to DJ? please help me guys. whats should I do?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Before I go to sleep at night my eyes sometimes water, I think its just a case of genetics or too much sun or a case of you getting older and eyes weaker?

Not 100% sure, see doctor.
 

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jesusrules said:
also should I try to ignore it and still keep trying to DJ? please help me guys. whats should I do?
NO! Youy should quit now! Watery eyes will mess your game. Accpet it and DIE!

If your gonna let watery eyes stop you from gaming. Than your probably gonna let alot of other things stop you from picking up girls.

I think you already know what the answer to your question is. Don't let watery eyes stop you, unless you want them to.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes, vette has a good point. Let me expand it: wattery eyes are excuse for anxiety to approach women. If you trully had a disorder, and you trully wanted to approach a woman, you would approach her with realization that you have a disorder and it is YOU. You have axiety and it is subconscious, and it is not just about women.


I too had watery eyes. Especially in the winter when it's cold and windy. I started working out (running, lifting) and working on myself by improving my game. I became a number 1, every body else are now number 2, I could care less for their opinions. In other words, I've now closer to the ideal of myself. My watery eye problem is gone. Apperantely, it was a problem with my nerves that made me stress too much and think too much while doing stupid things such as walking on the street, or checking a girl out.

What you should get from this is that you need to start working on yourself, concentrate on improving your physique, your game, anything that you need improvement on. You should be your number 1 priority, girls are 2nd. Your mom is 2nd, anybody else is 2nd.
 
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