"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Water weight/Water retention

Dirtheart

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I came across this article recently, which I found very fascinating:

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/water.htm

It suggests that in some cases excess flab could be caused by stubborn water retention. I've dropped way below my recommended weight in the past, but regardless of how thin I have become I always have this layer of thick skin covering my abs. It sounds like I might have this problem, but have no idea how to check for sure.

Anyone else had experience with this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You may want to purchase some Water Pills or "Diuretics" at your local neighborhood pharmacy and take them for a week to see if that's the case. I would deffinately follow the directions though so you don't become seriously dehydrated and wind up in the hospital. I did a quick google search and am thinking about trying this myself because I would like to know the same thing.

http://www.metabolicnutrition.com/hydravax.phtml

Btw: your before and after pics=amazing

-Cheers
 

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Thanks Phenom, I will read into it and give it a go. If you give it a try meanwhile please keep me updated on how well it works for you.

And thanks for the comment on the pics. :)
 

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And yeah...I have this. I was always thin, but pudgy around the middle. Considering I'm 5'11" and I just broke 150 pounds this summer, you can imagine what I'm like.

Most of my body is well defined, and I'm getting bigger by the day, but I can't get my abs to show. Thanks for the link.
 

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Get some green tea for a bit and see how that goes. That also helps get rid of retained water.

Beer is horrific for water retention - If my memory serves me rightly, sodium is a big cause of it.

Green tea, and if you go to a gym, get yourself into the sauna :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How long in the sauna?
 

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take a load of water with you, and very occasionally taste your sweat. when it stops tasting really salty, you're onto a winner.
 

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While my mom was on a diet, she kept track of everything she ate, like sodium, fat, and sugar.

She noticed that if she ate a particularly salty meal (Baja Frsh as an example) she would retain up to 3lbs MORE water for up to 3-4 days. And this is when she weighs only 120lbs.

That was only one meal too, if you were to have a particularly salty diet you could retain much more.

Its funny, because drinking ALOT of water will actually make you retain less.
 
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