"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Water weight/Water retention

Dirtheart

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I came across this article recently, which I found very fascinating:

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/water.htm

It suggests that in some cases excess flab could be caused by stubborn water retention. I've dropped way below my recommended weight in the past, but regardless of how thin I have become I always have this layer of thick skin covering my abs. It sounds like I might have this problem, but have no idea how to check for sure.

Anyone else had experience with this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You may want to purchase some Water Pills or "Diuretics" at your local neighborhood pharmacy and take them for a week to see if that's the case. I would deffinately follow the directions though so you don't become seriously dehydrated and wind up in the hospital. I did a quick google search and am thinking about trying this myself because I would like to know the same thing.

http://www.metabolicnutrition.com/hydravax.phtml

Btw: your before and after pics=amazing

-Cheers
 

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Thanks Phenom, I will read into it and give it a go. If you give it a try meanwhile please keep me updated on how well it works for you.

And thanks for the comment on the pics. :)
 

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And yeah...I have this. I was always thin, but pudgy around the middle. Considering I'm 5'11" and I just broke 150 pounds this summer, you can imagine what I'm like.

Most of my body is well defined, and I'm getting bigger by the day, but I can't get my abs to show. Thanks for the link.
 

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Get some green tea for a bit and see how that goes. That also helps get rid of retained water.

Beer is horrific for water retention - If my memory serves me rightly, sodium is a big cause of it.

Green tea, and if you go to a gym, get yourself into the sauna :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How long in the sauna?
 

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take a load of water with you, and very occasionally taste your sweat. when it stops tasting really salty, you're onto a winner.
 

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While my mom was on a diet, she kept track of everything she ate, like sodium, fat, and sugar.

She noticed that if she ate a particularly salty meal (Baja Frsh as an example) she would retain up to 3lbs MORE water for up to 3-4 days. And this is when she weighs only 120lbs.

That was only one meal too, if you were to have a particularly salty diet you could retain much more.

Its funny, because drinking ALOT of water will actually make you retain less.
 
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