The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
What you say very very much aligns with what my buddy said. Some bad fvcked up shvt he had to partake in cuz he swore he would as a soldier of the United States. Nothing I want to repeat and repost here cuz I don’t want to think about it. We touched on it in police academy but not long cuz even the veteran police instructors couldn’t deal with the topic.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Wait he had to PARTAKE in it??
Not directly. By partake I meant “be around it”
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What was happening?
Oh. Well yeah, I mean it makes sense too considering that the top people in power are all about that crap. The whole email scandal with Hillary along with Jefferey Epstein lets you know that these people in chargedesire pedophilia to become commonplace. It’s so ****ed.
Bacha Bazi, which is an old practice in secular Afghanistan where old, rich, powerful men basically get young boys to dress up as girls like drag queens/cross dressers and rape them. It’s pederasty, but just referring to the Afghani practice of it before Islam came and slaughtered those bastards lol.
That’s kind of like saying that you like to suck c0ck because you enjoy the taste and not because you’re gay. Ummm no. It doesn’t work like that.
Unless somehow he is exploiting the man whose having sex with her.
Exploit in what sense? Like a pimp getting money from a john? I doubt that a pimp gets turned on by the whole process any more than you get turned on by your job. He’s just in it for the money.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Straight truth. Porn really started ****ing up guys I think because that’s when it seems like the duck shot started to become a fetish. Those girls that partake in it are ****ed in the head forever too and can never recover from it either.
"Duck shot"?
I usually come one here with my phone. I meant cuck ****, not duck shot lol
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
